Yeah so ive had my journal deleted for quite sometime now, TOO many painfull memories and i had some hills to cross over before i could let myelf get to the point to open up on here again
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the best advice i can give you is the best advice that was ever given to me: "dont try so hard, the best things happen when you least expect it."
if you try to apply this to your life every day, youll be amazed. especially in the romance section. by not trying so hard, i found loren, and again, by not trying i found shawn whom i am happily married to =)
and just take it easy. one day at a time.. youll get through it. focusing on one day makes everything so much easier. dont look and try to plan the future unless you absolutely have to. that was a hard habit for me to kick, but its worth it. you just gotta keep at it, and make a concious effort to watch yourself =)
youre a great guy, my dear and i love you even tho we arent nearly as close as we once were. im always gonna love you *huggle* -mandie xoxox
Wow thanks for the advice, your always there for some good wisdom lol :). Yeah i'm ALWAYS thinking of the future i hate it, but hearing how you changed your life and that everything worked out for you definaly helps! congrats by the way! *HUGGLES!* Thanks again!
its not going to happen over night, so dont expect it to. just keep it in the front of your mind. the best thing you can ever do for yourself is to not worry about the things you cant control. it makes all the difference in life and how you deal with things. stress levels will go down immensely as well =) and my life isnt changed.. its a work in process ;)
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"dont try so hard, the best things happen when you least expect it."
if you try to apply this to your life every day, youll be amazed. especially in the romance section. by not trying so hard, i found loren, and again, by not trying i found shawn whom i am happily married to =)
and just take it easy. one day at a time.. youll get through it. focusing on one day makes everything so much easier. dont look and try to plan the future unless you absolutely have to. that was a hard habit for me to kick, but its worth it. you just gotta keep at it, and make a concious effort to watch yourself =)
youre a great guy, my dear and i love you even tho we arent nearly as close as we once were. im always gonna love you *huggle*
-mandie xoxox
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XOXO
Nathan
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and my life isnt changed.. its a work in process ;)
much love dear xoxox
and youre very welcome =)
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