This issue is why my boy and I are trying polyamory. Despite my recent slip back into severe depression (and the lovely resulting deathblow to my sex drive), I still need 3 lovers to keep me satisfied... lol. (My boyfriend, my boy-toy at school, and a girl that my boyfriend and I share.)
See the kicker for me is when I was single I dated a lot. I am almost 40 now and it hasnt really subsided with me. I have friends that are 50 pounds overweight, nearly bald and the most exciting thing for them to hear from there spouse is "whats for dinner"
The other kicker is I really love my wife, I just cant picture my life without her in it. She gave me a beautiful son I will always honor and cherish her. She knows what I am like and she knows I have this in me and she does as much as she can for me and I love her for it.
Going poly would be wonderful but we have a son and it was never really a precondition of the relationship. I knew going in what I was sacraficing and I can live with it, its just very hard when there are opportunities.
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The other kicker is I really love my wife, I just cant picture my life without her in it. She gave me a beautiful son I will always honor and cherish her. She knows what I am like and she knows I have this in me and she does as much as she can for me and I love her for it.
Going poly would be wonderful but we have a son and it was never really a precondition of the relationship. I knew going in what I was sacraficing and I can live with it, its just very hard when there are opportunities.
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