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odin1970

Welcome back my friend to the show that never ends....

Mar 05, 2008 13:53

So let me give you all a dose of reality because alot of you are female and this might occur to you someday. My wife and I are attempting to have another child, she is 41 and well her clock is about ticked out. So that means fertility clinics ( Read more... )

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mylittlepeony March 5 2008, 20:18:40 UTC

I don't know much of the background, but maybe now that you guys are taking the clinical route in order to have another child, you can then have normal intercourse together with the intention of enjoying each other, rather than just working on that other child? Maybe you can talk to her about it and come to some sort of agreement that the stuff at the clinic is for a baby, and the sex you have together at home is a time for you to enjoy each other and express your love for one another =)

odin1970 March 5 2008, 20:27:42 UTC

Well ideally yes, part of the issue is we have a 7 year old running around which limits the opportunities for intamacy. She gets it but at 41 its almost like she is in panic mode. Im not sure if she is pre menaposal or not but the crush is on for her getting pregnant and she has been unable to (or perhaps unwilling to) seperate intercourse into the two veins you brought up.

Its not a crisis at this point its sort of in the underswell stage but I think 2008 is the last year we are going to formally try. Of course during that time its just fairly antaceptic.

Maybe part of me feels resentment? inadequate? I dont know I havent examined that part but I dont think I am over reaching with my assesment at this point. Thanks for the reply I really appreciate.

proudlyfallen March 6 2008, 02:24:57 UTC

*half-joking* I'm a LOT more attractive than a gay homeless man... and oh my GOD, I really need to get laid by someone who can slap me around without caring about me...

(This message brought to you courtesy of the screaming fight I had with my boyfriend in the Friendly's parking lot. Which wouldn't have happened at all had he just let me go home.)

odin1970 March 6 2008, 12:15:07 UTC

Well this is certainly an intresting post. Sorry about the fight hope it works out for the better. I bet your more attractive then a homeless man the entire notion of getting laid without the emotional strings makes you extremely attractive.

1268 though is a little pricey, is that negotiable? :)

proudlyfallen March 7 2008, 00:45:54 UTC

Sure, it's negotiable. ;-)

crazy_mich March 7 2008, 00:45:20 UTC

We'll meet somewhere and have kinky, wild sex. Deal? Deal.

Good luck with this though. I hope your wife gets pregnant.
And I hope the passion comes back.

odin1970 March 7 2008, 01:16:46 UTC

Canadian women rock!

I love my wife, shes just changing. Relationships have ups and downs and evolutions. I probably make her sound like a monster, she isnt I would never have a child with a woman I couldnt stand.

The whole baby thing is tough though, if you ever have them (and yes I think you would be an awesome mom) have them before your 35, not after