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ohtobeskinny

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Feb 02, 2006 01:50

i don't even have any friends.

no one ever calls me to hangout

no one calls me, period.

i'mjust that girl you see that wears weird clothes andwalks around like she doesn'tcare

but it's really because no one likes me

andi just end up hating everyone

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minormonger February 2 2006, 14:29:26 UTC

I was in the same situation in college. It wasn't because I was not likeable. It was because I really made no effort to make friends. Too much of a hassle. I guarantee if you picked up the phone and called someone to hang out, bam, you'd make friends. Because whenever I felt ready to hang out, which was rare, I could always find someone. And you seem very very likeable to me. :)

I hope you feel better soonly.

ohtobeskinny February 3 2006, 05:03:31 UTC

thanks for your support

__likeamagazine February 3 2006, 00:52:26 UTC

story of my life.

*hugs*

ohtobeskinny February 3 2006, 05:03:08 UTC

i hate it. i'm glad you understand but it's a terrible life

__likeamagazine February 3 2006, 05:07:31 UTC

that it is.

i'm around if you ever need to feel like
you have a friend. an internet friend is
almost as good. maybe.

ohtobeskinny February 3 2006, 05:10:19 UTC

thank you. do you a screenname ? mine is selfishgirls

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mallowdarling February 10 2006, 17:52:59 UTC

I have the same problem. Noone ever calls me to hang out. All I have are mediocre work friends that never want to hang out with me... and then they wonder why I'm so dissatisfied with life.

ohtobeskinny February 12 2006, 00:47:19 UTC

i know. same here. i think it's all a vicious cycle. i'm depressed, i have an ed, and then i have no friends but then they all lead into each other and exacerbate each other. how do you figure having a boyfriend helps the situation? how did i even get a boyfriend while i'm in this situation?

mallowdarling February 12 2006, 01:55:10 UTC

Well I've had my boyfriend for 5.5 yrs, so i don't remember what its like to not have him around, but when i was 18 I had a short-term boyfriend over a summer when i was very bulimic and it helped me- i never got depressed during that summer because I always went out and over to his house and to hang out with all of his many friends.
Luckily i have a very wonderful boyfriend that complements me about every 1/2 hour and it gets me through lack of friends. Not to sicken you with my gushiness, but as I am typing this, it is snowing. He just told me that he loves the snow and that the snow reminds him of me, because "the snow is magical and beautiful and you are magical and beautiful," he said.
Its times like these that i don't feel so bad for myself.