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[orangechick1337]

Parents need to die, or in this case, my father. He is a pain in my frickin' ass and I just want him to go away. Sometimes he can be really nice, and then others, he just doesn't get it. I'm going through a tough time now, and he doesn't seem to get it. He cannot comprehend what I am going through, so he isn't sensitive or say the things I need

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[leftylucy]

I'm probably one of the last people you want to hear this from, but whatever, you need to hear it: misery is not something you should have to "get over". It should be talked about and resolved. See a teacher. Even if you don't like them (that's how I got to know Mrs. Weiss, I talked to her even as I HATED her because I was sick of talking to friends/family). Everyone is stressed out, but that doesn't make your case any less important. At least consider my advice, because I can tell you from experience that it really helps. If talking to teachers didn't help, I probably wouldn't be alive today. I'm serious. I don't know or think that you're in a life-or-death situation, but your happiness shouldn't be sacrificed because of whatever it is that's going on.

[vaguehobbit]

It seems like you already know the roots of many of your problems and the solutions, but you just need to talk to somebody. When I mean you need to someone to talk to, I mean you need somebody to just listen and not necessarily respond. You will find much more relief speaking to someone who is paying complete attention to you and only you, rather than a bunch of people online. This may sound strange and I am not saying this listener is me, but I think this works. You'll kill me for the reference, but remember how Siddhartha found relaxation by speaking to the Ferryman (who didn't even respond)?

[jackisblack34]

wow. i would say it will be allright, but i fear the wrath of kristie. lol (pleez don't hurt me)

I understand the whole college thing, settling sucks! i also, get (a little) the feeling that academically u worked ur ass off and got shafted for it.

i COULD tell you are smart, (ms. #3), beautiful, amazing, a good friend, loyal, funny (always), great to be in a car with(who else would i get lost with?), flirty in a good not slutty way, and a fantastically amazingly kewl person.

BUT i wont cuz u will kill me. hehe. so.......to not get hurt, i will just say, anytime you need to bitch, u know i bitch just as much as you so ya...hehe