Oh my. Those "expierenced" doms you see all over the internet.. "I tell my slaves right up front, they are mine and i use them for my own pleasure. What they want or need is irrelevant
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I also think of submission as a gift, although I never really write about it as such in my erotica. The gift, I feel, is built upon a foundation of two very important, very key concepts: mutual trust and mutual respect. Specifically, not just respect for each participant's role within the BDSM relationship, but also a general respect for each participant as a person first and foremost.
(It is *so* frustrating chatting with those people. They even are capable of telling me 'i am not a very good sub' or switch, based on my annoyed reactions to their 'what you want or need isn't important, as long as i can fuck you'-rubbish.)
The guy who said the first quoted senctence of my post, was a 47 year old, with 4 previous (well, that doesn't *have* to say much) 24/7 slavegirls. It totally depends on my mood wheter i am patient enough to explain people how my BDSM thoughts work and match with theirs, i guess. :)
Besides: may i add you? Like to know how things work out with you and Kate.
and yes, submission is a gift, a beautiful gift... and being able to offer that submission to someone and not have it abused is yet another. I have never felt so free and so safe in my life as I do when I am with my Master.
Sweet of you to say so since English is not my mothertongue! Free and safe are words that BDSM, for me, brings - never felt like that in any other way. Oh: and together with that: pride as well.
There is definitely something more to your quoted example than meets the eye. That sort of person is needy and pathetic. He should probably seek professional help before he begins to try to control someone's life.
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I also think of submission as a gift, although I never really write about it as such in my erotica. The gift, I feel, is built upon a foundation of two very important, very key concepts: mutual trust and mutual respect. Specifically, not just respect for each participant's role within the BDSM relationship, but also a general respect for each participant as a person first and foremost.
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(It is *so* frustrating chatting with those people. They even are capable of telling me 'i am not a very good sub' or switch, based on my annoyed reactions to their 'what you want or need isn't important, as long as i can fuck you'-rubbish.)
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Besides: may i add you? Like to know how things work out with you and Kate.
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Submission is a gift.
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and yes, submission is a gift, a beautiful gift... and being able to offer that submission to someone and not have it abused is yet another. I have never felt so free and so safe in my life as I do when I am with my Master.
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