Basic Stuff
Name: Ines, though everyone calls me by a nickname: Aeria, Aer, Alessa, Inessa...
Age: 17
Sex (not the recreational kind): Female
Your Personality
How would you describe yourself? I hate describing myself @_@; Well, there's two sides of me, I suppose. Around people I'm very loud, very cheerful and outspoken, sociable and I joke around a lot and talk until I lose my voice. But when I'm on my own I often feel excruciatingly lonely and worthless, like I'm not worth anyone's time. I also tend to bash myself both on my own and in front of people.
How would others describe you? Eh, loud and ditzy I suppose and very comical, but with a very low self-esteem. Some people describe me as worldly and intelligent but I wouldn't know.
What are you passionate about? Rather, what are some things you enjoy? A lot of things, I'm very flexible ^^" I love drawing, singing and writing most of all. I also enjoy cooking a lot. My absolute favourite thing to do is take care of people, help them or just make them feel better. My greatest hobby is daydreaming, though.
What are some things that get on your nerves? What could you do without? I get EXTREMELY annoyed when people don't believe me when I'm telling the truth, especially when I'm complimenting them!
Do you have any talents? What are you good at? Keeping my head in the clouds! Seriously? Personally I don't think I'm good at anything but since this answer doesn't count, people say I'm good at singing, drawing and writing. Oh! There's one thing I think I'm good at - massages.
What are you not so good at? PHYSICAL EXERCISE. Dancing. Any kind of thing that requires me to move since I'm too much of a klutz.
Relationships
What do you look for in a significant other? Physically? Mentally? This is such a hard question *blushes* I am sucker for dark hair and blue eyes - that would be perfect. But other than that, blonde hair is also beautiful~ I prefer paler, thin guys to tan, bodybuilder-like ones. But ultimately I think I would need a guy who's a gentleman but with a good sense of humour, someone whom I can play around with easily but definitely who can cheer me up and tell me I'm good enough... Also, he would have to be a little romantic and quite mature since I tend to like older guys (like... 30-ish 8| )
"Love" -- how do you look at it? Even though I don't think it's something that's essential for everyone - one lives how one wants to and feels happier - it is something that I believe is essential to my happiness. I have never been seriously in love - I've had a crush and I have a really really big one right now, and I am very needy. In all honesty, to be deeply in love and to be loved back is one of my biggest dreams and something I daydream about very frequently. I am, after all, a hopeless romantic still dreaming of some kind of prince charming, even though I know something like that doesn't exist. I still wish for it.
How do you feel about cheating? Have you ever considered it? I think cheating is a great lack of respect towards yourself, your partner and the one you are cheating on him/her with. If the spark vanishes from a relationship and if you feel yourself growing closer to someone else, it is always better to confront your partner with it. He/she will not hate you whereas he would if he would have found out about the affair. To me, it's something horrible that no one should ever do.
How do you view friendship? Friends are the most important thing in one's life. I can't explain why because it would be an essay of its own, but my friends mean the world to me.
Given a choice, would you prefer many acquaintances or few friends? Actually, I have many acquaintances AND a small group of very close friends. But if I had to choose, I'd go with the latter - you can't beat true, close friendship.
Concerning friends, could you leave them to pursue your goals and dreams? Yes, definitely, because I know I will never forget them and I will keep trying to talk to them at least once in a while.
Are you more faithful or more cynical of others? I'm definitely more faithful - too faithful, most of the time. I'm very easily tricked because of it.
Other Stuff
A picture is optional, but what of your looks? I'm quite chubby and short, my hair is very dark and wavy, cut short, and I have side-parted bangs. I have brown eyes that sometimes look black and sometimes look a hazelnut kind of colour.
If you were in a band, who else would be in it? What instrument would you play? Why? I love to sing and I sing in a very small singing group at my school, we're invited to sing at openings and dinners and stuff. One of my dreams is to sing in a band, not because of the attention and the fans but because I would love to be able to sing freely for people to hear. People tell me I sing really well so I don't think I'd kill people with my voice xD;;
At a live show... What kind of fan are you? A wallflower? Part of the mosh pit? Somewhere in-between. I jump around a lot and scream the lyrics but I don't like being thrown in the mess D:
Could you sum up who you are in a single song? This is the hardest question ever - I have 24 THOUSAND SONGS IN MY IPOD. But I think
You Are Loved by Josh GrobanWhat are (some of) your favorite lyrics? Eh... I love the lyrics of Train Song by Feist and Ben Gibbards:
Travelling north, travelling north to find you
Train wheels beating, the wind in my eyes
Don’t even know what I’ll find when I get to you
Call out your name love, don’t be surprised
It’s so many miles and so long since I’ve met you
Don’t even know what I’ll find when I get to you
But suddenly now, I know where I belong
It’s many hundred miles but it won’t be long
What will I do if there’s someone with you
Maybe someone you’ve always known
How do I know I can come and give to you
Love with no warning and find you alone
It’s so many miles and so long since I’ve met you
Don’t even know what I’ll find when I get to you
But suddenly now, I know where I belong
It’s many hundred miles and it won’t be long
Your three vote links:
http://community.livejournal.com/parabewood/29383.htmlhttp://community.livejournal.com/parabewood/29944.htmlhttp://community.livejournal.com/parabewood/29673.htmlAnything else? I hope I don't get stuck with Takumi, I don't like him ]8<