Build me up and knock me down!

[paridine]

I hate repeating the feelings inside of being built up and then knocked back down. What the fuck is this roller coaster bullshit. It isn't that I walk into walls and allow myself to be misled. It is giving someone just enough trust and expect that they must reliable to some normal extent and then realize that is all in vain

Comments

[azul_ros]

I love your new icon! Glad to see a post from you. It's been too long!

I don't think you're doing anything wrong by being accepting & friendly. Those are wonderful traits that most men have a hard time with. They usually hold women they're interested in to some high standard that isn't realistic. You just need to find someone that is willing to be just as friendly & accepting as you, with the added benefits of attraction. That would make a very solid relationship base. And, if you read a post I put here about 2 weeks ago, friends are more important than boyfriends, in my womanly opinion. I've dated a lot of guys & I don't even know the majority of them anymore. They drifted off in their own separate direction. My male friends are still my friends, for the most part.

[darkmerlin]

I often find myself in the same position. I call it, The dreaded "Friend Zone." I grew up with 3 sister and no brothers, so i can be more sensative towards what girls go through. for example, most guys cower at the mention of the word tampon. having grown up with it, old dirty used ones lying on the floor done affect me. So whenever i get to know a chick, (because im not going to date someone i dont know), we become friends, and it turns into the whole "well i wouldnt want to ruin our friendship" shit. and who the hell says that you cant be friends with a girl after a relationship? who do i look like, nick? i dont think so. Women also for some reason are attracted to guys who are total dicks to them. i dont get it. it goes back to the old proverb, nice guys finish last.

[combustible]

i say you get a chick whose built and looks like heidi... then put a 220v magnent to thier head and erase thier brain... then make them beleve everything that you KNOW they would be better off believing.

yeah.

[razorotika]

I'm the girl who helped Frank make his bed squeek this morning....it sucks that you only respect lobotomized women. Piss off bitch.

[combustible]

it sucks that you took that seriously, piss off yourself.

[razorotika]

Get in the kitchen and make me a sandwich.

[smak_my_bitch]

Yah, I hate all that shit. The whole nice guys finish last shit. You be nice to them, be geniune, be a friend, bring flowers, show interest, dinner, movies, etc. all the stuff that's supposed to make them feel special.

Then they ditch you.

You lie to them, beat the crap out of them, fuck them in the ass and cum on their face, and they love you forever.

Aren't relationships fun? yay.

[razorotika]

All I can say is I've tried to let you know what you mean to me and if you feel knocked down by it thats your own thing. I'm always here for you and I think the world ov you.

This wasn't about you!

[paridine]

It was about other people in my past that repeat what others before them have done. I am bitching about shit that happens to me after knowing someone for a couple monthes.