Similar things happened to me in elementary and high school, (make friend, unmake friend, leaving me feeling like everything was one-sided) and will probably happen in uni as well. My boyfriend and my friendship is also something completely new that I've never experience before. Its like friendship, but with the willingness to show vulnerability and have genuine care for the other. He's my first serious boyfriend, and I agree, he is also another kind of best friend to me. I think I shall write a detailed entry about my past friendships as well, (maybe make this post a little less abstract!) I'll try my best to find true friendship and certainly I'll tell you when it comes my way :)
That's good news! :) I'm glad. Sometimes I feel I'm at a loss at what to write for an entry some days, even if so much has happened. Thoughts escape me, but then BOOM, I write a reply to you and it looks like an entire entry I could've posted haha. So thanks for being a sort of muse! lol I'm glad we've talked back and forth. :)
Since you commented on my blog, I have to creep around on yours. 8D I totally agree with you about how friendship mostly isn't really there for genuine emotion. I see a lot of people at school and I can just tell that they don't actually care about each other as much as they pretend to. They're not the bonds that last. The thing about finding actual friends is finding someone who you really click with, like you seem to with your boyfriend. Only thing is...it's really difficult to find someone like that. |: So it's terribly difficult, but not impossible. I've been lucky enough to find three people who are very close to me. While everyone comes and goes, these have stayed and the will continue to do so, I'm sure. I'm sure you can find the same, it's just a matter of luck. :3
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I'll try my best to find true friendship and certainly I'll tell you when it comes my way :)
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I totally agree with you about how friendship mostly isn't really there for genuine emotion. I see a lot of people at school and I can just tell that they don't actually care about each other as much as they pretend to. They're not the bonds that last.
The thing about finding actual friends is finding someone who you really click with, like you seem to with your boyfriend. Only thing is...it's really difficult to find someone like that. |: So it's terribly difficult, but not impossible.
I've been lucky enough to find three people who are very close to me. While everyone comes and goes, these have stayed and the will continue to do so, I'm sure. I'm sure you can find the same, it's just a matter of luck. :3
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Until then I think I'll remain being a cynic.
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