Could you whisper in my ear the things you want to feel?

[peaceful]

What's kicking

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[jaydenrioblue]

I'm not in a relationship of any sorts so I'm afraid I can't answer your question. However, I agree with you on the best friend thing.

[everyytime]

In complete agreement

[strider7901]

2 out of 3, because I have a open issue. THERE. ha.

[peaceful]

Say what?

[strider7901]

2 out of 3 relationships I had, I was open with problems, concerns, and such. However, it took months to be open.

[sawah1989]

I could never talk openly face to face to mark but i can share all of my emotions when i write them down. If things were to get sorted with mark i would make a concious effort to try and talk to him face to face

[peaceful]

But why? Why is it so hard for you?

It's good that you can express yourself through written words atleast :).

[christine_o9]

i'm the same way as sawah1989. i mean i'm not in a relationship right now, but my last serious reltinoship i had problems communicating face to face. i think a big part of it was i was scared of what his reaction would be. and most of the time when i tell someone how i feel i get emotional, then things start to not make sense. and on top of all that i just hate people seeing me cry. so writing was always easier for me.

[peaceful]

Why? Was he an angry person or something?

Yeaaah, most people find writing far easier, myself included.

Talking face-to-face with some people tends to end up with either me screaming or crying, haha. But what's important is that I still get my message across, so it's all good - I'm not bothered about my outbursts. Writing is far better because it allows us to make much more sense because we're calm and obviously have time to think about what we want to say properly. Either way is good with me, though.

[christine_o9]

no, he wasn't really an angry person at all. i was more afraid that something i would say would dissapoint him. or he wouldn't agree with what i felt. i guess it was more a fear of rejection to be honest.