I think I get what you mean. Like, today, I was feeling bummed about being single for a bit now. And then this guy was smiling and me and talking to me... (he was being real friendly) And... I think he was coming on to me. But then I got picky and said to myself that I don't just want to be with someone to be with someone, so I just let that thought pass on. Sounds like it's option C for me... (but I prefer dogs)
Hey... plus side. Spinster is such a cool word. I don't know why. It's like "DJ"
But... excuse all previous ranting of mine (I believe we're in the same time zone. It just hit one here), here's my take/advice/blah~ see how it goes with the reconnection or the guy at work or whatever. Don't, of course, settle, but have a little fun with it. You know? ... ... Too obvious?
I'm the kind of person who can't just play around. It's always felt like if I ever tried anything with someone, it would have to be the only time - I care a lot for the people I allow in my life, and I work hard to make those relationships work. I'm not one of those 'kiss a lot of frogs' girls. I've been hurt enough times by friends I loved that it makes me extra careful when it comes to more-than-friends.
For the most part, it seems to me that the couples who are the worst are those who got together because they were "supposed" to. The ones who could never stand to be single, who always had to have someone else to validate them (worryingly enough, my brother and his fiancee remind me of one of these.)
The difficult part is that in the area of the country I live in, it's almost as if there's something wrong or broken if you're in my kind of situation. I've gotten much better at ignoring it, but some nights are more difficult than others.
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I think I get what you mean. Like, today, I was feeling bummed about being single for a bit now. And then this guy was smiling and me and talking to me... (he was being real friendly) And... I think he was coming on to me. But then I got picky and said to myself that I don't just want to be with someone to be with someone, so I just let that thought pass on. Sounds like it's option C for me... (but I prefer dogs)
Hey... plus side. Spinster is such a cool word. I don't know why. It's like "DJ"
But... excuse all previous ranting of mine (I believe we're in the same time zone. It just hit one here), here's my take/advice/blah~ see how it goes with the reconnection or the guy at work or whatever. Don't, of course, settle, but have a little fun with it. You know? ... ... Too obvious?
Night XD
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It was just a rough night.
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=3 "kiss a lot of frogs girls" made me crack up a little. That's so cute XD
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The difficult part is that in the area of the country I live in, it's almost as if there's something wrong or broken if you're in my kind of situation. I've gotten much better at ignoring it, but some nights are more difficult than others.
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