My review of Pat Califia and Drew Campbell's sadly out-of-print Bitch Goddess: The Spiritual Path of the Dominant Woman is now up in the newest issue of The Shadow Sacrament, an online journal of sex and spirituality.

(because anal sex is largely underrated)

It won't be my first time, and I won't be nervous, but I'll want you to to treat me as if I am. Gentleness breeds trust, in the beginning -- gentleness at first makes wildness easier, later. Ironic that to turn me into a thing with teeth and claws the first thing to do is to touch me as if I might break. ( Read more... )

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They were in the upper bedroom when I found them, in a house where two dozen or so kinky women had gathered for joyful debauchery. Four women clustered around an open door in a hallway seized by an awful quiet. As I approached, one turned with her hand over her mouth and rushed past me down the stairs. I caught the sound of a gasp, then a low, even ( Read more... )

Today we flaunt our labels in an attempt to let the world see that queers are their neighbors, friends, coworkers, and loved ones.

Me: A Pansexual Polyamorous Kinky Top-Identified Switch!

My bedroom is a disaster. Bottles of massage oil and lubricant are tumbled in a heap on the discarded bedspread. The freshly used dildo by my pillow catches the light on its still-shiny surface, while a strap-on harness hangs casually from the headboard, just above where my favorite flogger has been tossed, its tails tangled. A latex glove, ( Read more... )

Lesbian Smut Cliches

"Abundance" and "Honey" have just appeared in The Erotic Woman, a website geared toward tasteful, elegant erotica for women. Their site design is quite gorgeous and the images paired with my pieces are delicious, oh my. You'll find them under Literature > Poetry and Prose.

The site requires a login but is entirely free. I recommend it!

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My review of Jennifer Hunter's Rites of Pleasure: Sexuality in Wicca and NeoPaganism is now up in The Shadow Sacrament, an online journal of sex and spirituality.

The short version of the review is, this book is great, go buy it. ;)