wondering

[peter_pan2]

Is it a sign of being egoistic to feel happy having no one around you who could possible contribute to your happiness? Always though I was a social person, but lately found out that I don't really need anyone to feel content. Just feels weird, but still carefree.

Comments

[olegovitch]

man it's self-sufficience! accept my congrats.
let's have fun on sunday - as long as you don't mind me speaking russian :)

[peter_pan2]

i doubt I'll go to that party on Sun. However, I got lots of snacks and cakes after our Crim party last night. Please feel free to come over to finish them up!! I live in 23 Park Parade (Jesus Green)

[lyudisha]

YOu are lucky I would say. I'd never feel happy if I do not have anyone beside.

[peter_pan2]

I think somewhere there I know I got friends (I can rely on when needed). but more often then not I find myself being indeed self-sufficient in feeling happy.

[caduceus_]

I think it is definitely egoistic :) Just think about your poor friend who hasn't reached nirvana yet and hopes to enjoy your company tonight :)

[peter_pan2]

well, i'm not some Mother Theresa to help people in reaching Nirvana. just kidding. moreover, what i meant is just an ability to be happy without the prerequisite of having somebody around me. But this doesn't mean that I feel miserable when there are people with me. I feel very content while with my friends.
I'm going to a pool and film tonight. hope to see you there!

[caduceus_]

How serious :)
I felt unhappy yesterday because I needed to speak at dinner :(
See you

[peter_pan2]

happiness and unhappiness are in a dialectical unity:) you won't appreciate your happiness unless you sometimes experience some downs, or observe miserable people.

Was it a Xmas dinner? I observed the whole pilgrimage to such dinners last night:)

Офф-топ

[_torba]

Антон, дай, плз, свій мейл. Я нарешті "добив" інтерв"ю:)

Re: Офф-топ

[peter_pan2]

ya schoyno vyslav svij email lyudishi.

[promonaut]

ну, людина народжується сама і вмирає сама.

[peter_pan2]

pogodzhuyus. ale z inshogo boku, lyudyna zovsim ne zavzhdy narodzhuyetsya ta pomyraye schaslyvoyu. ta i teza pro te, scho lyudyna tvaryna sotsialna, prymushuye sumnivatys u normalnosti mogo teperishnyogo stanu

[promonaut]

Одного разу зі шваґром зустріли в супермаркеті облізлого Діда Мороза, що вештався між рядами. Шваґро прокоментував його з'яву: "Асоціальний Дід Мороз!" :)
Скільки в цьому багато значень!

[peter_pan2]

nu, ya ne dumayu, scho ya vlasno asotsialnyj, yak oblizly Did Moroz:)
skorishe, yak zara populyarno kazaty v ukr politytsi, ya jdu z sotsiumom paralelnymy shlyahamy:)