Comments | philnation: I'm convinced...

philnation

I'm convinced...

Oct 05, 2008 02:46

...that men and women are simply incompatible. The "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" thing makes more sense to me now than ever - and it's not like I ever considered that a foreign concept, either.

( It's too obvious now )

musings on things, cynical, romance

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lotus_n_my_hair October 5 2008, 15:33:20 UTC

I'm convinced...
...that men and women are simply incompatible

Go gay then! XD

philnation October 5 2008, 16:10:02 UTC

It's not just about me... it's a general comment.

As long as folks only want accountability on one side when both sides are very much responsible, we're just going to continue to have the sorry state of affairs we have today. Since I see a staunch refusal for folks to hold women accountable in any way for their actions in this, I don't see that changing.

lotus_n_my_hair October 5 2008, 21:46:32 UTC

I was joking.

But yeah I do agree with your rant for the most part...It is time for women to take responsibility in how they deal w/romantic relationships...Too many times we women see ourselves as the victims when many times the signs are there that the guy is a jerk...we choose to ignore it.

This is so sad, Phil anonymous October 12 2008, 03:20:27 UTC

Phil, I get, feel and understand your frustration and anger... true, there are plenty of triffin' ass men and women out ther. However, if that is what you focus on and believe that is what you are going to continue to attract -- until you retreat in bitterness rather than bother anymore ( ... )

Re: This is so sad, Phil anonymous October 12 2008, 03:41:00 UTC

... excuse my typos in my previous... and Phil, this comment was by no means an attack on you because quite honestly I agree with what you said as one would have to deaf, dumb and blind not to notice the horrid state of affairs between American men and women.

My point in writing you is this: we can't control or do anything about others behavior, but we can do something about our own and attacting the love we want. If we consider it (to love and be loved) worth fighting for, and I don't know about you, but I sure do. (Which is why I am doing exactly what I mentioned to you above about taking time off and changing my behavior, etc).

Re: This is so sad, Phil biklar November 24 2008, 07:34:10 UTC

This is very sound advice. I wholeheartedly agree knowing Phil for a long while on-line, caring about him and only wanting him to be happy. I also especially agree with this part:

"Now since you sound like your mind is made up, I don't know if this will jibe with you at all... which is also understandable, but also a damn shame since you have so much to offer a woman and in a relationship."