9__9 well shit of course I'll read this. Don't think otherwise.
But oh my god. *hugs* Well you know what I thin about the birthday stuff. I still can't believe that happened, seriously.
Her actions...I just don't understand why she is doing this to you. You DON'T deserve this at all, and honestly would advise you to be a bitch back when she wants to run to you for advice. Best to cut off this fair weather friend now, she's not worth wasting your emotions on.
But...I know that it's easier said then done, believe me. And I know it won't be easy at all, but she doesn't deserve your kindness or anything. Hell, honestly she deserves nothing from you since she obviously doesn't appreciate such an amazing friend.
*hugs* I wish I could say more to make you feel better, but I understand how you're feeling. If you ever need to talk...I'm here, okay? I won't ever turn you away.
;;A;; *HUUUUUUUUUG* Thankyou Issues. <3333 It means so much to me that you're there when I need someone to talk/rant to (And I hope you realise I'll do the same for you <3) Thankyou for trying to cheer me up Issues <33 You managed to make me smile at least, so that's an accomplishment =3
I can't say I understand any of what she's done recently at all - I mean, one minute she was overjoyed because I had a date, and then ... This happened =/ It just makes no sense to me - and it's so frustrating because at least if I could find a reason why I could at least start to move beyond this all, or not fixate on it so much at least.
Haha. You're not the only one who'd advise me to not take her back btw (IF she does come back...) My Stepmum's revealing to me now that she didn't like this friend of mine - Thought she was too selfish and felt like everything was about her.
Until now, I actually thought she really valued my presence though, you know. I thought she cared for me at least a little. But if she can cast me aside so easily ... Idk. I
( ... )
T_T Aww, I wish things were better for you! *hugs* If there's anything I can do, let me know ok? I've been tossed aside so often, I don't even really remember what a best friend feels like, just the pain of loosing them.
The darkest night ain't black enough To keep the morning light from shinin' The highest wall ain't tall enough To keep the smallest man from climbin' Meat Loaf - Alive Always makes me feel better.
*hug* Thankyou. Things will get better - They always do - I'm just emotionally unstable at the moment. I'll find a way to get through it - Of that I'm sure - It's just gonna be difficult until I get used to not having my friend around anymore.
... Whiiiiich is gonna suck because I always loved spending time with her. But, if this is the way she wants to be, I'm just gonna have to find a way to cope - and if that means throwing myself into anime, music, movies and writing, then so be it.
I definitely need to look that song up by the sounds of it too.
Aww, well I hope you fell better soon. I don't have too many 'perky' songs, but If I think of anymore, I'll let you know. I always listen to Meat Loaf when I need to cheer up (or vent, or... anything really).
In situations like this, I think you'll often find you did nothing wrong, but they're just self-centered people. I've had to deal with such people time and time again. I was always there for them, trying to be the best friend I could be and I got nothing in return. It's not like I ask for praise in return, but it would be nice to feel loved and appreciated. But it just so happens that some people have a very different idea of friendship. What I've decided to do in such cases is distance myself from ever becoming close to them again, but keep in contact and hang out sometimes due to mutual friends and such.
I understand how you feel, but honestly, try to distance yourself from her because you deserve better. Try to distance yourself from the feelings of wanting this person in your life. Don't let people take you for a ride just because they cannot comprehend the true meaning of friendship. *Hugs*
Just ... Thankyou. I needed to hear that tbh - I needed to hear that I mightn't have done anything wrong here - Because I was really starting to wonder if I had done something without realising it. But you're right - I don't think I HAVE done anything wrong here, if I had ... Surely I would have had some form of an idea of what it was.
And I know exactly what you mean - I didn't want her to praise me going "omg, you're such a good friend," or anything, I just would have thought that after being there no matter what she needed, she would have ... Idk, come to appreciate me a little more? As you say though, clearly, people have different ideas of what "friendship" means. It just hurts because I'd thought she cared for me the same way I cared for her *sigh*
I can understand what you're saying with that last paragraph - I know I deserve better than treatment like this. I don't mean to sound conceited, but I know that I'm a good friend - but it's so hard to accept I might need to cut her out of my life
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But oh my god. *hugs* Well you know what I thin about the birthday stuff. I still can't believe that happened, seriously.
Her actions...I just don't understand why she is doing this to you. You DON'T deserve this at all, and honestly would advise you to be a bitch back when she wants to run to you for advice. Best to cut off this fair weather friend now, she's not worth wasting your emotions on.
But...I know that it's easier said then done, believe me. And I know it won't be easy at all, but she doesn't deserve your kindness or anything. Hell, honestly she deserves nothing from you since she obviously doesn't appreciate such an amazing friend.
*hugs* I wish I could say more to make you feel better, but I understand how you're feeling. If you ever need to talk...I'm here, okay? I won't ever turn you away.
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I can't say I understand any of what she's done recently at all - I mean, one minute she was overjoyed because I had a date, and then ... This happened =/ It just makes no sense to me - and it's so frustrating because at least if I could find a reason why I could at least start to move beyond this all, or not fixate on it so much at least.
Haha. You're not the only one who'd advise me to not take her back btw (IF she does come back...) My Stepmum's revealing to me now that she didn't like this friend of mine - Thought she was too selfish and felt like everything was about her.
Until now, I actually thought she really valued my presence though, you know. I thought she cared for me at least a little. But if she can cast me aside so easily ... Idk. I ( ... )
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*hugs* If there's anything I can do, let me know ok? I've been tossed aside so often, I don't even really remember what a best friend feels like, just the pain of loosing them.
The darkest night ain't black enough
To keep the morning light from shinin'
The highest wall ain't tall enough
To keep the smallest man from climbin'
Meat Loaf - Alive
Always makes me feel better.
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... Whiiiiich is gonna suck because I always loved spending time with her. But, if this is the way she wants to be, I'm just gonna have to find a way to cope - and if that means throwing myself into anime, music, movies and writing, then so be it.
I definitely need to look that song up by the sounds of it too.
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I always listen to Meat Loaf when I need to cheer up (or vent, or... anything really).
(hopes to have converted another Meat Loaf fan)
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I understand how you feel, but honestly, try to distance yourself from her because you deserve better. Try to distance yourself from the feelings of wanting this person in your life. Don't let people take you for a ride just because they cannot comprehend the true meaning of friendship. *Hugs*
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And I know exactly what you mean - I didn't want her to praise me going "omg, you're such a good friend," or anything, I just would have thought that after being there no matter what she needed, she would have ... Idk, come to appreciate me a little more?
As you say though, clearly, people have different ideas of what "friendship" means. It just hurts because I'd thought she cared for me the same way I cared for her *sigh*
I can understand what you're saying with that last paragraph - I know I deserve better than treatment like this. I don't mean to sound conceited, but I know that I'm a good friend - but it's so hard to accept I might need to cut her out of my life ( ... )
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