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[photogal85]

i hate that i let my romantic life get me so down. ok, sure, things didn't work out w/ adam and they really didn't work w/ brandon. i shouldn't let it get me so down! i just looked at adam's myspace page. you know, cuz i'm an idiot. he's still in a relationship, and she's got a cute picture of both of them as her default picture. i know, cuz

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[goldiloksinnyc]

you're allowed to be down because of relationships. and it's good you realized that you're still not over the last guy. take some time to grieve. take a good long time. and don't worry that your last 2 relationships fail. most relationships fail. if they didn't we would all get married to the first person we liked. you're not a failure. you're a normal person. now take some time for yourself.

[surrealish]

aw baby, it's ok. I only have a few things to add to what Lisa said. your romantic life gets you so down because it's just that... part of your life. I think you have this idea that you need to be strong and not let men affect you so much, but you're human, and you're going to get hurt. getting hurt means you're living. I've felt done with relationships tons of times. I took 5 months off from seriously looking for anything to learn my ins and outs, and get over all my past relationships. it's not easy to get over them, but you will and we'll be here to help and love you.

[goldiloksinnyc]

to add to what we both already said, relationships aren't a win or lose situation. they end but that doesn't mean you fail. relationships are hard and they take a lot of work. as long as you learn from it, no experience is a failure. take some time to really reflect and think about what you learned about yourself and relationships, and it might make everything worth it in the long run.