Today I was complimented on my skirt (a simply black pencil skirt slightly above the knees) and my shoes (black sandal-like things with two inch heels). Skirt and shoes are paired with a plain black button-down shirt. The sad thing is, I am dressed facetiously. I have deliberately dressed in black every day for the last week and a half in ( Read more... )

"You can have a fling with Guy of Gisbourne, but you CANNOT fall in love with him! He will so stab you in the end!" -Julie Tague ( Read more... )

I had a lot of interesting interactions with men this weekend. Interactions of every type and description. Interactions that brought me to a lot of interesting realizations about how I feel about men and romance. Granted, I’m writing this while still amazingly sleep-deprived and completely exhausted, so it’s bound to be filled with hyperbole and ( Read more... )

So I’ve been having an awesome last couple of years. I feel as if I’ve learned so much about myself and grown in ways I never would have anticipated, all for the better. I feel more secure in myself and more certain of my life than ever before. But in feeling so solid with myself I have been looking back lately wondering “what have I been doing ( Read more... )

Well, one of many, but this one because I just happened to randomly be thinking about it ( Read more... )

Okay, here are my thoughts about Glee from Tuesday night. (I used to do a summary after every episode of Lost and American Idol. Those were the days! While I can't exactly do the same for Glee since I can't watch it live I sort of wish I could now. Anyhow, here are my thoughts ( Read more... )

Sent to me by Annalise ( Read more... )

During normal office banter yesterday I happened to mention to one of my new coworker friends that I’m really happy. Yup. I’m just really happy in my life right now. And yet, as I observed to her, I don’t have two of the three things that I want more than anything. But I’m still really, really happy. She stared at me in amazement and said “ ( Read more... )

I have a great New Year’s Resolution for 2011. Not a silly one like in years past, but one that I can actually accomplish without too much difficulty. I, Merry Farmer, am going to spend more time being me. =D ( Read more... )

One of my favorite lines from a movie is the following from Sliding Doors: “I’m a woman. We don’t say what we want. But we reserve the right to be pissed off if we don’t get it. That’s what makes us so fascinating ... and not a little bit scary.” It’s so true. Raise your hand if you’re a woman who has felt resentment towards someone at some ( Read more... )