ok, cupid

[pippingeek]

i don't remember what it was that made me go update my online dating profiles tonight, tho it's nice that i'm no longer listed as living in georgia or florida. it's all moot anyway since i'm not giving them money. but then i figured i should look at ok cupid and see what that's about, since i know folks who use it a lot, with varying degrees of

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[goovery]

I struggled with that one, too. I ended up answering that I'm straight, and then answering some of the specific sex questions publicly. My reason for listing myself as straight is that I joined the site to find a long-term mate, and I've never imagined myself being in a long-term relationship with a woman. Also, there are quite a few poly people on OKC and, while I'm perfectly comfortable with them, I'm not interested in being a plus one for a couple. Of course I know that being bi is not at all the same as being poly, but I imagine I'd be more likely to be a search result for that community if I called myself bi.