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[pissinyourmouth]

Is it nessecary to know someones past to build a future with them?

Personaly I don't think it is.  Now is all that matters.

I want to know everyones opinion on this.

Comments

[regina_regina]

It helps to know their past. If you know their past it tends to predict their actions for the future. You know what they are going to do in a situation. If they were beaten as a child, they tend NOT to beat their own children, because they were trapped in that scenario. It's good to know someone's past because it's their history. But..anything that they DID in the past, drugs,sex,money,rock n roll whatever, shoulden't affect how you feel about them now..if, that is, they got over the bad habit.

two cants put in.

Now, we have to make plans for saturday.

[pissinyourmouth]

i Agree. but i prefer to learn those things myself reather then being told them. It gives me a better understand of it.

[regina_regina]

actually studies show that abusive parents were abused as children and are modeling behavior patterns that they aquired through socialization. Abuse doesn't necessarily make better people. it usually makes broken toys.

[regina_regina]

This is true. But, I have to say, that most of the people I know who had to go through that, aren't broken toys, they care for every child, why? because they don't want someone to hurt like them. Mabye I have un-statistical friends. sorry. :/