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[pitthappens]

to the ones who read this that are single...do you search for someone? ya know, that special someone, are you constantly trying to date and meet new people? For those of you that don't, do you think they they will just come to you out of nowhere? Do you ever get tired of looking then stop searching, thinking that they will come to you if it was

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[tophead4]

i don't get sick of being single, though having someone would be great. i think i'm supposed to have a certain kind of relationship right now, so i'm not pushing anything that could be unnatural.
maybe i'm okay because 1, i don't believe in soul mates and 2, i'm happy with myself. not 100% but i know what i like. i try to think about happy things.
just remember, if you can hurt this much, you can love the same.

[valleygirl9439]

When I found my husband, who is the most perfect creature ever to walk the earth (in my eyes of course), I wasn't looking. We actually met at a concert where I was with another guy friend of mine. I think that I was just lucky that I found my soul mate at the age that I did. I think it just takes time and becoming mature when it comes to relationships.

[sweepea82]

I don't go out looking for some one, but if there's an interest then I do pursue it. Not in a "hi, I'll be your stalker for the month" way. *awkward silence*

I have moments where being single seems like the worst fate ever, but I'm pretty sure I'm not serious-relationship-material right now.

Yay for derailed trains of thought.

[sanguinefroth1]

I'm sick with the opposite sex; attracting them, anyway. Not that I've ever been good at that, because I am not. Anyway, when I started thinking about it, we only need others to complement ourselves. They are a gift to ourselves. So if you are happy with who you are, then don't worry about getting a gift. Try, yet avoid obsessing. That way, you're perfectly happy being alone. That way, you are not lonely.

Get better. In body and in spirit. Do something for yourself, even if it is silly or it means splurging a bit. Don't forget to treat yourself.

[cajunriot]

i figure that if i keep myself busy with other things that the thought of being alone is not so bad. I would love to have a significant other in my life. Someone i could hold and enjoy simple things together. I find one beautiful thing in every woman, something that attracts me to them, but my problem is that i want more than one thing. One particular beauty is good for a little while, but it gets worn out fast. So i guess that since sex is not that big on my priority list, (sorry men, but it isn't. Don't ban me from being a man because sex does not drive my life)i need to be pleased in other areas. Damn, there was too much feminine influence in my childhood for me to rather conversation instead of banging the headboard against the wall.