thoughts about sexual vs. aggressive/assertive body language (overlap?miscommunication?)
Hastings 3:20 AM

Of course we had the most frantic correspondence-each wrote ridiculous letters and sent ridiculous telegrams, told all our acquaintances about our flaming affair and-well, you’ve been to college. All this is banal, I know. Here’s an odd thing. All the time I was idealizing her to the last possibility, I was perfectly conscious that she was about ( Read more... )

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"I am so sorry."

Step 2: Validate
"I can really see how and why X crappy thing I said/did would have hurt/upset you." (Bonus points for elaborating)

Step 3: Context
"I did/said X crappy thing because I wasn't thinking/was under a lot of stress/you had hurt me and instead of talking to you I ( Read more... )

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