Allergic to cashews

Jun 29, 2011 14:16

I'm going to try to write this out to let go of it. This is what it is to find out your child has a serious food allergy ( Read more... )

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chezalee June 29 2011, 18:29:19 UTC
Oh my god I was crying as I read this. I know that everything turned out ok, but I could just feel your terror at something going wrong. I don't know how you held it together enough to drive. That sounds so frightening. :(

I'm so glad she's better today. *hugs to you all*

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dreamweaver523 June 29 2011, 18:53:11 UTC
this, exactly...I am sitting here crying at work, even though I KNOW Jilly is okay now. Yeesh. how scary. I am sorry you guys went through that.

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polychrome_baby June 30 2011, 04:04:13 UTC
*hugs* thank you. I know this was pretty hard for some people to read. I just had to get it out. It was cathartic.

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dreamweaver523 June 30 2011, 20:20:01 UTC
I know how that is, sometimes I HAVE to write something out.

How is Jilly doing today?

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thatgirljj June 29 2011, 18:35:32 UTC
OMG, that's my worst fear. WORST FEAR. Ugh... now I have the shakes remembering Derek's last case of hives.

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pinkminx June 29 2011, 18:51:51 UTC
Ugh, yes, mine too.

I get hives on occasion, nothing too horrible, and since we both have our regular pollen allergies in addition to this, chances are the kid inherited the tendency. I just hope she'll have it mild, not all serious and ER worthy like Jilly or my ex-flatmate who had to have the ambulance called a few times every year.

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polychrome_baby June 30 2011, 04:00:12 UTC
Yeah. Unfortunately, what I'm learning is that parents who both have allergies as simple as seasonal allergies are more likely to have children who inherit food allergies. :(
Still, the vast majority of kids do NOT have food allergies. So, don't worry yourself over nothing. Just be prepared.
Thank you.

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pinkminx June 30 2011, 12:12:18 UTC
Yeah, they say that the tendency is inherited, not the specific allergy. And apparently asthma/allergies are interchangeable in this respect, suffering from one means your kids will be more likely to have either. I did a lot of reading on allergies when I was younger, because... well, of course I would have, I'm allergic. I'm sort of obsessive about finding out everything I can about a given thing if it touches my life. Except cars, can't be arsed to care that much about cars ( ... )

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tatjna June 29 2011, 18:35:44 UTC
Whoah, hard day. Glad she's ok.

And, that is exactly how I found out my one is allergic to bee stings. Except, you know, there was a bee and it stung him. And he was 11 so the communication was a bit easier.

It terrified me how fast he went from normal to a mass of welts, and by the time we got to the emergency doctor he was going blue-lipped. He tells me it happened one time when he was with his Dad and he ended up having to have adrenaline, and now I'm paranoid about bees.

(i have a friend who's deathly allergic to all nuts so we're all good with an epi pen these days)

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polychrome_baby June 30 2011, 03:58:37 UTC
It was pretty freaky how fast it went from okay to not okay.
*hugs*
Thank you.

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xotiffany June 29 2011, 19:10:53 UTC
Yes this. And I definitely believe that your calmness helped keep your children calm. What a brave little girl and a caring brother!

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polychrome_baby June 30 2011, 03:56:45 UTC
He's an awesome little man. My mom taught me that in a crisis freaking out is the best way to not come out of it, so shut your mouth, breathe, and work through things rationally. Thank you.

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polychrome_baby June 30 2011, 03:57:46 UTC
Thank you.

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p0rcelain_girl June 29 2011, 18:50:48 UTC
Shit girl :(

<3

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polychrome_baby June 30 2011, 03:55:36 UTC
Hey, we lived. That's best outcome, right? <3 Thank you.

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