my god

[prdanceman]

I have a lot to say right now, but i'm not quite sure how to say it.  I mean i had a really fun time tonight.  i got to see Sol'Jibe, and they're awesome, i got to hang out with my friends, i got ice cream, but for some reason things feel wrong.  Jane rearended a truck, and i think my heart stopped for a second when she told me that, i was

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[rynne]

Aw, Patrick! *hugs* And all I can think of to say is stupid platitudes like "it will get better", never mind that I know it doesn't make you feel any better now. But we all love you, and you're a great guy. I do hope that things get better for you soon...

dont be sad, be GLAD (cheesey trash bag commercial)

[beauty_lyes]

Patty!!! darlin I'm sad to see you like this. I love you to death and would do anything for you. if you ever EVER need to talk, dun matter wat time of the day, call me. I'm totally not kidding, call me. I think you have my cell, but if not it's 1(831)595-9169. luv yas much!

[fuzzy_horses]

Patrick you are one of the most free-spirited people I know. You always have interesting stories to make me giggle and laugh and you are a wonderfully sociable person who lights up the room when you walk in. I hope these don't seem like empty compliments because they're not. You are one of my dearest friends, you will always be my close-by locker buddy, and I hate to see anyone depressed. It happens to everyone tho so I'm sure this is perfectly normal and I just hope that things will get better for you. I luvs you patrick! *hugs*

Tough love

[kwpdb8]

Being angsty and emotional doesn't fix anything, even if it sometimes feels good to pout. I love you, and I know other people love you too, and you know we all care. But for heavens sakes, there really is no need to think about things like death just because something's out of sync. All that does is make people worry about you, and that's just mean, because the thought that you might be seriously screwed up scares us all.

That said, if you need to talk, you know where I am. But I'd highly reccommend A) confronting the person you're concerned about B) doing a lot of soul-searching and C) being active in other areas of your life.

Hoping I didn't sound too harsh,
Katie

Re: Tough love

[chicydee34]

hey katie, you don't know me, but man, that sounded kinda bitchy, people need to express feelings, sometimes they need to know that people care, and thats pretty much what a journal is for, expressing your feelings....sure, talking about death is scary, trust me i know. but people need to express what they are feeling, and basically it sounds like you are chewing him out for putting his feelings in a journal...sorry to sound mean.

Re: Tough love

[kwpdb8]

look, I'm not chewing anyone out. I understand self-expression, there's no reason to talk to me like I'm a five year old. And since you don't know me, and don't know that that's the way I always am (and how to interpret it), then please don't advise me as to how I could amend my ways.

Re: Tough love

[prdanceman]

i know u have the best of intentions when u say the things u do, but i know i was being angsty, and i know i was being emotional, i mentioned that in my reading that it wasn't right, but i still did. i also mentioned the thing about hurting myself, and how i know in the long run, i would never do it, i was just having a really really bad day, the shit hit the fan pretty much. I needed to express my feelings and that was pretty much it, i needed to get it off my chest. Thanks for the support i'll talk to you guys if i need any help.

[shweetiepye]

Hello Lovely! Life can be oh so very complicated. You're right, things do eventually blow over, but like most wonderful lessons in life, it takes time. All of the best lessons in my life have come from agonizing pain, but I am a better person for it. Face down your demons, and come to terms with who you are physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. Enjoy life, and be the beautiful person you are. It's almost impossible to be happy ALL the time, but when it gets to the point of depression or some similar emotion, don't be afraid to reach out and ask for a pint of ice cream and a good dance session... ;)
You know I love you madly darlin'
Nora