Well, he absolutely is, but you're also supposed to feel sorry for him. I was also trying to play with the idea that men only ever put that effort into the one woman they feel is worth it and not all of those along the way to her.
That idea actually really helped me while I was dating. It wasn't that I didn't deserve their attention, love, etc. as much as I just wasn't the one for them and they knew it. Doing all of those other things and knowing that would actually have felt more of a betrayal and I could respect them for not doing that and being aware of what they wanted.
A little off topic, but with that realization came that it is often us women who hold on to relationships when they are so obviously not worth continuing or doomed to end despite knowledge of this because we love them and want it to work.
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A little off topic, but with that realization came that it is often us women who hold on to relationships when they are so obviously not worth continuing or doomed to end despite knowledge of this because we love them and want it to work.
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Thank you, too, for taking the time to read and comment. :)
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