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Nov 08, 2005 15:24

i walked out today into a shower of leaves. i didn't even realize that there was a tree outside my dorm, but then i remembered that that was where we had let out the giant butterfly that had flown into our window, which we caught in a jar that once held flowers. i like trees ( Read more... )

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anonymous November 8 2005, 23:26:54 UTC

Well if you ever get married make sure to invite me... I'll gladly come
Ruben

form and essence... salparadise87 November 9 2005, 18:54:11 UTC

most people are just concerned with the form the future will take.

you belong to the precious few who kinda worry about it's essence.

dont let the man...er...woman...get ya down?

"the future is no place to place your better days"...sensible, but hard anonymous November 11 2005, 23:18:24 UTC

i think concern or thoughts about the future is inevitable. why are we in college? in addition to its inherent value, college promises some future.

as to fascination about the future? i don't know. i'm not sure these people who do plan out weddings and children do so out of some kind of fascination for what's to come. rather, the thought "one day i want to get married and have kids" serves as a motivator to an extent, a long-term 'goal.' also, people often gain a better perception of themselves by isolating their wants and dwelling on some details. upon realizing that i want to have children one day, i began to understand what it is i look for in a romantic relationship. clarity about the present through projections into the future. plus, isn't it a sort of idealism in itself? planning out details like daniel and white-with-turquoise china?

-anu

trivial details... dramaqueen56 November 13 2005, 07:28:51 UTC

actually, if i have 4, they will be two of each...aiden, cameron, julia, and possibly daniella. (if three kids, i'm having two girls.)

but i haven't decided the who/where/when/why/how of my wedding yet. because, of course, the styles will probably change before then.

lol.

anonymous November 21 2005, 04:03:14 UTC

I've found myself asking the same questions but it all comes down to wanting something real. You find yourself thinking okay thats nice but what does it really matter. It's just a fantasy. I find myself wanting to shake people and scream in their face, wake up!