my two cents: don't see him yet. don't see him for a long time if you can help it. your heart is still obviously in pieces and won't be mended correctly by falsifying friendship. you were lovers, and that part of your memory needs to wash away before the friend aspect can be dug back up. brake ups are real hard but i've gotten through my worst ones by just being completely removed from the evidence.
i'm coming home on a red eye tonight, flying into boston and staying on the cape for a week or so.
If you really want my honest opinion, it's going to take a while for the two of you to become friends. REAL friends. That's the way it is in any relationship. If you really want to try right away just take precaution. At first it's awkward. Really awkward. Sometimes you don't know what to say, and you have to keep reminding yourself that you're not together so you cant do this or that or say this or put your hand there etc... You're not going to be at the level of friendship that your goal is right away. It will take months to get there. Maybe even years. It depends on the people. Be prepared. I sincerely hope it works out. I wasn't so fortunate to have a partner who was honest enough to be a friend.
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i'm coming home on a red eye tonight, flying into boston and staying on the cape for a week or so.
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call me as soon as your closer than..the cape haha.
i miss you!!
and i lost my phone so gimme a call so i can have your digits!
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REAL friends.
That's the way it is in any relationship.
If you really want to try right away just take precaution.
At first it's awkward. Really awkward.
Sometimes you don't know what to say, and you have to keep reminding yourself that you're not together so you cant do this or that or say this or put your hand there etc...
You're not going to be at the level of friendship that your goal is right away. It will take months to get there. Maybe even years. It depends on the people.
Be prepared. I sincerely hope it works out.
I wasn't so fortunate to have a partner who was honest enough to be a friend.
Consider yourself lucky.
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