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[punkrockprenciz]

So it's been 2 weeks, right.

.... Shane and I have been fighting with eachother more than ever.  It all started last night when I asked him to go to Stone with me.. And he refused, and that was fine.  But he started getting all defensive about it and saying I should just find another boyfriend to go out there and dance with me.. And that really

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[anonymous]

In a successful relationship, there are going to be fights. The fights make you stronger. When you have fights, and are able to get through them, then you have a strong relationship. You also want to talk to the other person about your problems. No matter what they are. Even if you think they are small, or annoying. They would rather hear the stupid problems than you not saying anything.

I'm no genious on relationships, I never have been, but to havea successful relationship, you need a great amount of trust. If you can't trust them, you have nothing.

I hope I helped in some way?

[geminibabykarly]

just give up
you can find someone new
the relationship is dead
it happens
be strong and let go

eventually you can still be friends
probably not right away
it'll be hard
but i think you can do it

you've gotta let him go.. if you want him in your life in any way

[fallen__stars]

tavia..trust me thats exatcly how me and codee were and i had to be strong and let go and its really really hard but in the end its worth it.. you just gotta really stay true to what you say..trust me..its worth it.. <3

[anonymous]

I dont agree with the last two..
Don't let go of him. I've watched your relationship with him all year and you have something special. You just don't let go of something like that. Fights happen, But it sound like these fights are happening only because you guys care about eachother so much. But stay strong in it, because It's something you believe in.
youre too gorgeous and nice to not get the best. and when ur with shane you look like you have the best right there for you..so stay strong

and dont let go if you dont want to

and giving up would be the stupidest thing to do
you just dont give up on someone you love..so dont listen to them

Dont even listen to me, because I dont know everything..or maybe anything

But im telling you to listen to your heart..and as the song goes
"Eventually you'll finally get it right"

[anonymous]

That person is right, Tavia. You don't want to give up on love, or let the one you love go. I did.. and I regret it every single day of my life. That's not something I want to see you go through. You don't deserve that. You seem so happy when you are with Shane, and we all want you to be happy. Just follow your heart. No matter what happens, your heart will never lie to you, and in the end, you'll be happy.

[sammajo22]

Tavia! Don't ever give up on Shane. you may have some roughspots but when you guys are happy and not fighting you are so happy..and i've never seen you that happy, he makes you happy. don't give up on him. you two are an amazing couple. and if you guys keep comming back to eachother..obviously you guys are ment to be with eachother.

*this is my new journal..add me?

[blinkblue702]

hey tavs..
i dont really know much about your and shane's relationship.. but in my experiences so far, i've realized that you usually know all along what is best for you.
but, if it's real and you realize that you are happier more than you are hurting than it's usually worth it. my advice, listen to the people around you. it's easier to be on the outside looking in. <3
sometimes it's best to be alone for a while, even if it hurts.. i've always been really dependent on my boyfriends and it isn't a good thing, at our age it can be really unhealthy, ha. it seems like you two have got a good things going :) but.. if you dont have trust, you don't have anything; it's all fake. hopefully you guys have that :)
hope i helped, darlin!
love, meaghan