friends, girlfriends

[q2lowtek]

I want a girlfriend who is going to be true to me. Who is going to celebrate in my victories and comfort me in my defeats, and that i can do likewise with her. I want a girlfriend who isnt going to fuck other people I know, like mazen or chrislai or mikemich and such

Comments

[hmdavid83]

not to be harsh, but perhaps putting up with that sort of treatment is what leaves you so open to it. You complain and whine all the time about how your girlfriend sleeps with your friends and does other things you don't like, yet you always take her back. You're not going to find a girlfriend who does all the things that you want her to do while you have one that doesn't. And as long as you put up with it when she does things that you don't like she'll keep doing it. If you don't like it, get out. And if it doesn't bother you enough to get out, then perhaps you need to re-examine what you really want in your relationship because there's something there that's outweighing the fact that she's slept with some of your best friends. And in my world, that had better be one absolutely amazing redeeming value for both your friends and your girlfriend.

dude....

[camarochick87]

you need to stop bitching about the past, it happened, theres nothing you can do about it now, except get over it, there is no point to keep bringing it up, cause honestly i dont like to be reminded everytime i read your lj, that my boyfried, fucked your ex-girlfriend, i dont want to hear it, and i'm pretty sure no one else does...

Re: dude....

[hmdavid83]

allow me to second the dislike of the "Mikey fucked Jenny O" reminder. If it makes you feel any better, he was probably doing it to get back at me for getting some before he did after we broke up.

Re: dude....

[speeddemon162]

If a man kills someone, but didn't intend to, he still killed someone

Re: dude....

[hmdavid83]

"However, everyone makes a mistake now and again. If they're truly sorry, and you sense real sincerity, then there's no reason not to let them build trust again if they want to."

I completely agree, but in this case it seems like Brian and Jenny's relationship has been trampled on and misused (from both sides) that I'm questioning Brian's continued desire for a girl who, from what i can tell, treats him like dirt. He doesn't deserve it. He deserves better.

indeed.

[q2lowtek]

Your newfound wonderful boyfriend has caused me severe mental and emotional damage, i hope you know this. Mike mich, thats you. Yes, I am NOT OVER THE FACT THAT A PERSON THAT I CONSIDERED A FRIEND WOULD DO SOMETHING LIKE THAT TO A FRIEND LIKE ME. You need to get over the fact that I am allowed to vent about something like this regardless of whether it was yesterday or last century. When jews bitch about the holocaust, you dont see many germans yelling "get over it".

Not placing the blame squarely on the mich'ster, because it takes a dick and a pussy to fuck. but I am saying i thought this man had my back, turns out that he had her from behind. and if you don't like the fact that this happened or that your beloved was an accomplice, then simply dont read my journal. its my place to vent.

True dat.

[mjm0912]

I understand the need to vent. But Brian. I know you have a lot more that you have hidden from me, just for the fact that you're worried that we would lose whatever we still have.

I want you to know that I am sorry. I wish I could make it better, but I can't. I can only console you and try and find you someone new who won't go behind your back and fuck one of your friends. I'm sorry man. I don't know what else to say.

Oh yeah. Your truck is good. Good for me to poop on!
;)

Re: indeed.

[polarsmurf]

:( i feel for you especially with the whole back thing. sigh.

glass can break and be repaired but the cracks can never be concealed, and the glass will never be as strong.

Purely objective analysis

[l_ara]

It is not difficult to be a faithful girlfriend. In fact, it is a basic requirement, not an option.

I agree with Hilary. Persisting with the relationship after she has cheated on you not only makes you a big dumbass, but gives her the green light to keep doing it. I don't blame her if she does it again, she knows she can get away with it.

Now, Mike. The fact that you have the audacity to offer consolation after you had sex with your friend's girlfriend is outrageous. You are going to help him find someone who wouldn't do that? Well why don't you work on BECOMING someone who wouldn't do such a filthy, low act?

When will everyone finally learn to be in meaningful, faithful relationships? Why even enter into a relationship if you know you don't love, respect and honor the person enough not to cheat on them? For goodness sake people, it's just sex. If you're not happy with your sex life, then get out of the relationship and then go act like a slut.

Hey Lara

[mjm0912]

I am going to be really really nice about this. You really hurt my feelings when you told me what you did in that previous comment. Brian and I have already started mending our friendship. This you did not know.

Don't lecture me ever again. Especially when you don't know the surrounding circumstances.

It's not nice and it only makes me mad at you. Even if you mean for the best. Which I know you do.

And I am someone who wouldn't do such a filthy low act. I became that person at the end of the summer when I realized how much I didn't like acting like a "slut."
I'm done with this shit.
MIkE out.

Re: Hey Lara

[l_ara]

Like I said, I was giving a purely objective analysis; one that is not contingent upon whether or not you are mending ties with Brian.

By the way, I don't lecture, I make intelligent points.

Thanks.

Re: Hey Lara

[q2lowtek]

OoO. I like you. Who are you? Where'd you come from? How come I don't know you? Come closer.

I am better.

[mjm0912]

And I am done. Thanks for the few days of entertainment guys.