A dual purpose chastity belt? Are you just not into the feeling of sex? I don't want to pry, but If there are no emotional or trauma events to cause you to fear intimacy, maybe it's something else. Have you had a variety of partners to confirm it's not "them"? What does your BF think - is he supportive?
I know that, especially if there are sexually related interests listed, most people steer to that area, and it's hard not to for some people; Many posters sometimes forget that we are all real people behind our interests...
I am sure you have hobbies and interests, and desires and dreams beyond a snuggly and warm diaper. Think about them, and see if you can make them real.
As for security, I know how important that is. But don't deny yourself the pleasures of life. It's a compromise I know, but it can be done.
Anyways, to add my quota of sex related posting ;) maybe you can get a wheelchair for your honeymoon and be treated like you deserve to be - of course with respect and kindness.
with my own TB/DL feelings, they will go away sometimes, but they always end up coming back. i mistake those going away feelings as a "cure" so i end up doin that binge and purge thing =( oh well
Re: nice to meetcha!raina_steeleMay 13 2006, 02:45:52 UTC
Hiya. ^_^
I buy the Abenas at drugstore.com ... the price is constantly changing, but it's something like $20 for a bag of 14-18 or so, if I remember correctly.
They're my favorites... they hold the most, and they're big and bulky. XD If I could change anything about them, I'd give them better tapes, though. :\
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Are you just not into the feeling of sex? I don't want to pry, but If there are no emotional or trauma events to cause you to fear intimacy, maybe it's something else. Have you had a variety of partners to confirm it's not "them"? What does your BF think - is he supportive?
I know that, especially if there are sexually related interests listed, most people steer to that area, and it's hard not to for some people; Many posters sometimes forget that we are all real people behind our interests...
I am sure you have hobbies and interests, and desires and dreams beyond a snuggly and warm diaper. Think about them, and see if you can make them real.
As for security, I know how important that is. But don't deny yourself the pleasures of life. It's a compromise I know, but it can be done.
Anyways, to add my quota of sex related posting ;) maybe you can get a wheelchair for your honeymoon and be treated like you deserve to be - of course with respect and kindness.
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with my own TB/DL feelings, they will go away sometimes, but they always end up coming back. i mistake those going away feelings as a "cure" so i end up doin that binge and purge thing =( oh well
glad you're not dead =P
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And I'm not that interested in sex, either. I can't see being obsessed with it the way the rest of the world appears to be.
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I buy the Abenas at drugstore.com ... the price is constantly changing, but it's something like $20 for a bag of 14-18 or so, if I remember correctly.
They're my favorites... they hold the most, and they're big and bulky. XD If I could change anything about them, I'd give them better tapes, though. :\
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