hey there! i identify with you on some of your topics more than i really even realized until i read this, others i can only imagine and i really know you can handle because you're an incredibly strong person - and your friend is right, sometimes you DO have to be selfish. i worked around the same problem of doing everything for other people, and nothing for myself - and though i still weigh so much of what i do on the opinions and welfare of others, there are some things i have done (like moving), and will continue to do to benefit ME. it's important to do things for others and to take your friends and family into consideration, but it's also incredibly important to focus on yourself sometimes. and though we'd like to think that your family and friends will always always be there, the only guarentee you're given in life is that you have YOURSELF and YOUR life, and the best thing you could do is to make sure that yourself, and your life are what you need and want them to be. it's not easy. it's really far from it... but you need to be
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And I'm freaked out with the whole dad thing
BUT ILY
AND AS SOON AS I HAVE A BETTER CAR GUESS WHO IS HANGING OUT?!?!
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The moving thing kinda stuck out to me cos it's something I'm dealing right now. Kind of pondering the same "what ifs" as you.
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thanks for reading Btw <3
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