Realization...

[rasberrielipz]

I was just talking to Tara and we were both actually being understanding....she is right....she has gone throught a similar experience with an ex...so she does know what I had to go through and I am going through

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[anonymous]

well i guess everything I said went to one ear and out the other! But Tara is right, she really is. The poem is sweet too and true for your life. I'm glad you are done with the pain and hurt he caused you to cause yourself..if that makes sense. Call if you need anything. Carols!

[rasberrielipz]

no no it was just that you were saying I'll be fine and all but Tara went through the same thing and she was speaking from experience....you were't but it was good advice...and yes it makes sense =)

[bballplayer87]

I'm extremely proud of you. I hope you really do try to be happy with Jon because he is really into you, at least it seems like he is. I might not know Tara but thank you for helping this stubborn girl. Enough of the told you so's, smile and be happy. You are a gorgeous, sweet and caring girl. Enjoy life to the fullest now before you have to settle down and get old. PC

[rasberrielipz]

well thank you sweedoms!! I will try and I am trying...you know that!! Thank you for the complements!! I so will!!!

[rasberrielipz]

yes I do and yes it takes 2 but it wasn't the only time he did...he cheated on sabrina, marianna and stephanie...ironically he cheated on all three with me and he probably cheated on me...he did do it 3 times so there's a chance he will do it again

[rasberrielipz]

mmhmm I love that poem but I had to change all the she's to he's

[mmmmetzger]

shiiiiiit, Im that next girl. =/
With Adam I mean

I know all the stuff that happened and Im just taking a risk. Tara if you read this Im not trying to hurt you or anything, youre a nice person... I just feel bad.

Im not fallin hard for him, I wont let myself.

.. Keep your head up, if its meant to be, it will happen, if not now, later... when youre ready. And it will be the right one, not some dousche like Ryan!

I did go through a lot of pain with the last break up, most serious relationships are painful. Just think to yourself: its all going to help in the long run. It makes you learn and grow as a person. Youre a beautiful woman and the perfect guy wont miss that when you meet. Its just all about patience.

[rasberrielipz]

no heather adam is nothing like Ryan...he only cheated on one person ryan cheated on three....tara and I never got along adn at one point we both really hated each oher and we might still...and yes heather don't make the same mistake I made because falling head over heels for a guy like I did is NOT worth it at all!! And thank you....those words mean a lot to me....and btw way heather you rock! Great advice too!!