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[redheadedrvrgrl]

If any of you want to feel better about the stress in your life, then you should read this. I see that most of you are complaining about the stress in your life and that you're the most stressful person right now. This should make you feel better. Time is coming close to November. Only three months until my first daughter is born. Now you tell

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[unceremonious]

but along with the added stress, you two will experience a great joy that many of us may never get the privilege. =D it's a two-way street, kiddo. take care of yourself.

[kidanthem]

we know that, that is a fact! =) but she felt the need to let others who say that they are the most stressed, that they probably have less to worry about than her and I. not that we can't handle it, I'm very proud of rachael and i can't imagine anyone else being the mother of my child

[unceremonious]

yeah...i would never pretend to be under more stress than having a child to care about. it's a tremendous undertaking, but i have faith in you two. =D it will be fun.

be good!

[meenypnts]

umm i never said it was...but you cohse the responsibity when you got pregnant, so maybe if things are so hard you should have made yourself a little more stable before having a kid.

[redheadedrvrgrl]

ummm...who the hell are you?

[kidanthem]

she's not saying she regrets it, or that she can't handle the stresses... we're doing just fine, with a few rough spots. so pump it CHAMIGGA

[redheadedrvrgrl]

lol, i love you baby. first time you've stood up for me though...
:-P

[amoonangel]

Heh, I don't think anyone should complain about having more stress than anyone else. It's all different, I mean I have exam stress, but it goes away when they are done, or work stress but i can unwind. Just like you are about to have kid stress, it will take longer to pass but it shall to. I don't think you meant to say that people should not complain about being stressed out persay. but maybe they should be a little bit more sensitive to the fact that you are under a lot of stress as an individual and their stress doesn't seem as significant maybe. Also I don't see you as a person to say "feel sorry for me, us" you are strong and I am confused as to why you said that. People deal with different stressors and different things in life in their own little ways. Yes you are about to have more on your plate than a lot of other people, but that doesn't make what you have anymore or less important than anyone else either.

[redheadedrvrgrl]

okay, again, really, stop. stress from having a kid isn't like exam stress, keeley. it doesn't just "pass". dale and i are 18 and 21, we still live with our parents and I'm sure as hell they still stress about us. It's a lifetime commitment to stress, end of story.

[amoonangel]

Also the above post wasn't to cut anyone down in anyway, so I would prefer it no be picked apart as in I was insulting you in anyway. Just stating an opinion. I think you and Dale are stronger than I could be facing what you are, I just think it could been said in a different way that you are under a lot of stress. *shrugs*

[redheadedrvrgrl]

Keeley, would you please not pick apart my posts like you always do? Just let me post, that's what a journal's for.
Thanks.

Just my thoughts nothing more nothing less

[bear13]

Ok Rach Sweety, I know you are stressed and that you have a long to extra bullshit that is going on in your life that you really didn't intend to have when you are 18 years old. But shit life happens. I find that like statement you said a but unfiar though. Because you have your worries and stress does not make anyone's less or ever greater. I know what it is like to have a kid i saw my sister and brother go thought and still going thoug it as we speak. I am here for you and will always be here for you. But dwelling on your stress dose not make anyone happy even you. Take one step at a time and then one you overcome that task take on another. Instead of going to Mexico this year why don't you wait and go once you have saved up money and you can really have fun in Mexico drink and dance and live it up. I will go with you but right now it isn't the time do that kind of stuff it would be a waste of money if you ask me. (just my thoughts remember, I don't mean to sound bitchy) " I would REALLY LOVE TO HEAR IT", But why do you make such

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[redheadedrvrgrl]

I think from now on I'm not going to allow people to reply to my entries. I posted this when Dale and I were extremely frustrated. I know that it may seem a waste of money to go to Mexico right now. It may be, because we need the money for the baby. I weigh my pros and cons, in some ways it's better for me to go now, before the baby is born. I will be breastfeeding for quite awhile, and I don't think I can bring myself to leave my daughter for a very long time. That's the sole reason I want to go somewhere NOW. Thanks for your support, though.

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[bear13]

Its not that you shouldn't let me post in your livejournal but when you make a comment like that your going to get people giving you advice and their own views on what you state. Thats all nothing more and nothing less. Meixco sounds fun now but wait you will want a break from the baby this time next year or maybe even before then. babies are hard things to handle and i can remember my sister wanting a get away after a few months just from the lack of sleep she was getting. But it differs with everyone. *hugs*

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[kidanthem]

i see your point sara, but you kno how rachael is ;) venting does her well, even if it isn't taken the right way by others, but I shouldnt' tell you this, you've known her longer, you kno all of this already. last week was very intense and extremely frustrating. I feel bad for oyur brother, i wish the best for him. it really is hard to compare one's stresses to another's. we all handle stress differently, we deal with them differently. that is why stress may be harder even if, to someone else, it would be simpler to deal with. wish other ppl would see things from more than one angle, you kno? i think your post woulda sounded better if keeley's didn't come first ;) hehehe. can't wait for you to be our child's godmother (i couldn't think of a better person for the job) take care dear!