I want to talk about oppression.

[banjololo]

This is probably only vaguely related to this community, but I figure y'all are probably cool with off-topic rants 'n' rambles, and it is a subject that likely affects everyone in some way.

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[down_wind]

I guess if we all said what we mean without using slang or cliches we wouldn't have the problem of accidentally oppressive language.

"You're a mean person and I don't like you" is more direct than saying "You're a fucking bitch."

Also, saying "you're an unintelligent homosexual male" is more direct than saying "you're a stupid faggot", and it's intentionally oppressive.

Oh, language.

[banjololo]

Haha I'm totally going to say "you're a mean person and I don't like you" the next time I'm in a heated argument.

[mewmewmew_]

Generally, this is how I speak. It's more effective in my mind.

[medicalfairy]

I use "douchebag" because I would not want it in my vagina. douching isn't good for you

[mewmewmew_]

My mind is often consumed by many thoughts like this in regards to language. Not necessarily just with offensive or oppressive terms, but a lot of terms, words, and phrases that are commonly used. I warn you that if you think too hard on it, you'll end up saying a lot less then you'd like to. I know that's what has happened to me. I've become scared of the power of language.

[banjololo]

Wise words, thank you. It's something I'm constantly thinking about and working towards improving, but I know I mess up and I notice and admit that. Lately I've really been avoiding idioms and expressions whose origins I don't know. I think language is awesome and like you say, a very powerful tool... that can be used for good (or not-so-) ends.