my dear, don't be afraid to love. you so fully have the right to love, and i know one day when you've opened up your heart to love freely, you'll realise love is the most wonderful thing anyone could possibly live for, because it outlasts time, petty quarrels, rumours, gossips, uncertainty, and it is the one thing that connects lives and gives us reason to fight on...
it's time to show some lovin' :) i wish you strength.
Should I distance myself from somebody because I'm afraid of falling in love with him? Because I don't know how he feels, and what we have now could be more infinite than love...and I don't want to ruin that, ever.
But this need to be with him, it's killing me. And I don't know how to deal with it.
but maybe not now! since you can't deal with it yet. cut yourself some slack. i'm sure you've been thinking hard, and it's time to stop thinking and go out and have some fun. go for a walk, a jog, a swim, fly a kite, watch a movie, have a good meal, share some jokes, read beautiful poetry, just do some of the things you like. maybe with a more open mind you'll know what you really want, and then it's up to you to decide whether it's worth taking the plunge or not.
I am forever wishing I was prettier, smarter, richer, more popular, a more wonderful person... I can never be satisfied with the way I am, it's never enough.
but there's nothing you can do about it, so why not begin to appreciate the parts of you that make you proud of yourself? you just probably never look hard enough, beyond the inadequancies. i think you have a choice to believe that you're beautiful; you're as beautiful as you want to be.
at the very least, you're healthy and safe and alive and there's so much to be thankful for in that.
The most frightening thing in the world is to lose passion. I fear I have none of that anymore. It's like my entire being just floats through the day. When the one thing you live for, the one thing you lean on is taken away from you, oppression by the people in power, the people who believe that everything they think is right, then what's a boy to do
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that was a beautiful comment and i'm sorry because i'm at a loss for words to reply and even to describe how i feel...but i totally feel you. i want to tell you this: don't give up. don't give up alright? don't give up. it's not worth giving up something you want. i don't believe in letting the circumstances get us down, it doesn't make sense. no circumstance is as strong as the will of the mind itself. and you try until you can't.
one day in retrospect, the years of struggle will strike you as most beautiful...
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don't be afraid to love. you so fully have the right to love, and i know one day when you've opened up your heart to love freely, you'll realise love is the most wonderful thing anyone could possibly live for, because it outlasts time, petty quarrels, rumours, gossips, uncertainty, and it is the one thing that connects lives and gives us reason to fight on...
it's time to show some lovin' :) i wish you strength.
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But this need to be with him, it's killing me. And I don't know how to deal with it.
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but maybe not now! since you can't deal with it yet. cut yourself some slack. i'm sure you've been thinking hard, and it's time to stop thinking and go out and have some fun. go for a walk, a jog, a swim, fly a kite, watch a movie, have a good meal, share some jokes, read beautiful poetry, just do some of the things you like. maybe with a more open mind you'll know what you really want, and then it's up to you to decide whether it's worth taking the plunge or not.
good luck :)
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I can never be satisfied with the way I am, it's never enough.
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who doesn't? because nobody is ever perfect...
but there's nothing you can do about it, so why not begin to appreciate the parts of you that make you proud of yourself? you just probably never look hard enough, beyond the inadequancies. i think you have a choice to believe that you're beautiful; you're as beautiful as you want to be.
at the very least, you're healthy and safe and alive and there's so much to be thankful for in that.
be proud of yourself girl :)
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that was a beautiful comment and i'm sorry because i'm at a loss for words to reply and even to describe how i feel...but i totally feel you.
i want to tell you this: don't give up. don't give up alright? don't give up. it's not worth giving up something you want. i don't believe in letting the circumstances get us down, it doesn't make sense. no circumstance is as strong as the will of the mind itself. and you try until you can't.
one day in retrospect, the years of struggle will strike you as most beautiful...
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