if i promise it wouldn't hurt,

[redlightcity]

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[anonymous]

who decides if it is to take another step forward, to find what possibly is love, or to remain as best friends forever.

[redlightcity]

hello....

sometimes we tell ourselves no, don't rush into it, i don't want to regret, i don't want to ruin anything, but sometimes i feel that we're too careful. and we're trying to keep things within control. and something so real and alive becomes so structured and restrained and if there's love staring at you in your face yet you can't acknowledge it then that's the saddest thing: to not be able to take love and make it something beautiful, by turning away from it right from the start. and if you give up something before you even get onto it, you might possibly just regret it forever.

don't let anything keep you from loving, the greatest thing your heart can learn is to love and be loved in return.

:)

[anonymous]

it's hard to find love, the fear of the pain that love causes makes people run away from it, even though we want it so much..

btw, i don't know you but happen to read your blog one day. your writing is beautiful :) cheer up though :)

[redlightcity]

it's hard isn't it? but that's what make it all the more worth it in the end, once we've found it :}

thank you!! cheers to you too.

[anonymous]

I wish I was born a boy.

[redlightcity]

we've got to live with what we've got....

[firingblanks_]

I think that warrants a better response. It's hard to explain how it feels unless you've experienced it. I'd quote and say it's something that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy.

The worst part of wanting to be of the opposite sex is hating yourself because of your body. That, and not knowing what you can do about it.

Be strong? That's what we always say. Do research. The internet is powerful. And I think I can help with this. A fair bit, anyway.

[firingblanks_]

Not that what Jiamin said is wrong, of course. We do have to live with what we've got.

[anonymous]

I don't know whether I still like this guy. I tell myself not to like him, and it's kind of like, sometimes I don't feel anything. Other times, I just think about him all the time. I want to know what he feels about me, yet I'm afraid to ask.

[redlightcity]

it depends on whether you think you'll be able to handle it if his answer isn't what you wish for...often i ask myself stuff like this, and i think about it obsessively, but the truth is i can handle not knowing more than i can handle knowing, cos i don't have any confidence, in both of us. so for me i'd rather go on not knowing, and let it fade away. but for you, if he's worth it, then why not give it a try? sound him out, or if you're really desperate, ask him. but be prepared that the answer might not be what you're looking for. in any case, live with it and don't regret...it's hard, but we'll be okay. and you know that what's meant to be will be, and what's not never will.

if you love something let it go, if it comes back it's yours. if it doesn't, it never was.

all the best and i hope you have much better luck than me :)
nobody deserves to have their heart broken, but it's how the world is.
<3

[anonymous]

i want to die

[redlightcity]

me too.