Pondering for the day: And the question is...

[redtele2112]

...will I ever meet the right girl? Do I have any chance at intimacy with another? Am I even likable in that way? Or do I exude the persona of just being that "really nice guy friend" to every girl I meet or crush on? Life sure does work in some strange ways. And then some. Must I simply adapt to that "nice but undateable" niche I feel myself

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[child_of_god_16]

I was just thinking about you today, and thinking about that exact question, remembering when we used to talk. Shoot me an email or IM sometime if you'd like to talk again. Westley the panther says hi :)

[pjyielder]

what you just posted is the story of my life. i'm afraid we're the kind of guys that are cut out primarily for marriage/family life, or so i've been told. to me, it comes down to the fact that women our age only date assholes. it has been the unifying truth in my life after high school. i hate to be the bearer of bad news, buddy. but we'll stick it out. we'll end up on top, you'll see.

[redtele2112]

You're most right. Somehow I always come back around to saying the same thing, and it comforts me. It's the time in between those thoughts that are some of the worst feelings in the world. Sometimes you just want to say, fuck it, what's the point? But...you are right. We will make it one way or another. Nice guys finish last.