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[reesespeecez]

Seeing Nathalie's post and seeing one of my friends whole page dedicated to the fact that she got engaged has got me thinking. Before I say anything I hope nobody gets offended because everyoen is entitled to choose their way of getting married. Shit, ill be lucky if i get there. But this is simply my idea, what i want but i cant have

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[lil_singin_babe]

this engagement thing has made me realize a lot of things. i realize how in love i am with someone else. it also made me realize how much marriage really means to me, the concept of love and marriage and children are all very dear to me. im having doubts about going through with it because im doing it for the wrong reasons. i cant just brush off marriage as if nothing and i cant just get married for the hell of it thinking that there's always a way out. point is it takes time to grow and mature and figure out what we want. you took your time, situations changed for you and if you feel that marrying him is the right thing then do it! youve been together for a while and every relationship has their ups and downs its how you recover from those bad moments that proves whether or not you should be together.
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[reesespeecez]

Yea i understand that. Its not the fact that i dont think i should get married but i just dont want to get married to say that i am you know? I want things done right. People are like well you know you cant afford a fancy wedding and im like i know that and that is not what i want. But i want an intimate ceremony that has some kind of emotional value not to go to a courthouse and sign a paper. Thats pointless to me. But yea i'd like to talk to you. I've been lost i know, but if you are having these doubts I'd like to speak with you. Maybe i can help you realize some things or make a decision.