Don't Know Why

[rei_klutzy_rain]

Life is so annoying sometimes. It feels like you could do everything possible and you'll still be let down

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[glasschariot]

You don't need to change the way you are for a guy. That is the wrong way to go. Why chase a guy who has no interest in you? Be yourself and the guy you are looking for will find out. It might take a while, but he's there. All your work won't be in vain. I don't know anyone who is as nice and dedicated to helping people as you. There has to be someone out there just like you.

I've down the whole "maybe I should go girly" road. What I do is incorporate that style into my style and make it better. I don't totally change, but if I want to act girly or wear girly clothes, I will. Change is good, but not extreme change. Enjoy yourself now.

Remember that time in church when heartbreaker's mom told us that we shouldn't care about boys at this time because the ones who are pretty now and popular are just going to burn out faster than the real ones we want. Lol! Take your time. If you get lonely, call me or get yourself occupied with something else if you don't want to call. No sense wasting your time...

[rei_klutzy_rain]

I appreciate your standing by me but I didn't mean a guy as in romantic. I mean friend wise. I find guys that would rather be friends with girly girls more than they'd be friends with me. It happens with teachers sometimes too, teachers I like are actually more in tune with the girly girls who on't even get it. I don't want to chance though, I know I'm not gonna go girly in order to be with anyone but sometimes I feel like I'm just mad because can't they be friends with any girl? Why do they always gotta be girly and shut me out?

[glasschariot]

And why do married people have affairs? Because they are attracted to them. People like each other because they are attracted to one another. You can't force attraction on someone. It has to be either learned or earned. Maybe you can take a step back and see what might be putting people off. There was this one guy in work who I had to act differnt around in terms of my hipperness. I couldn't be all happy happy around him. Just a casual, "how are you" had to do. Which was fine, because he was that type of guy. But it took me a while to understand that I had to watch what i do to certain people because everyone acts differently. If they still ignore you, then just leave it at that, I guess. It sucks that you have to be one sided on the matter, but that is what the human element is all about. I know I'm sounding harsh on saying "just leave it at that" but I know it takes time to come to that point. However, you come to learn your relationships with certain people can only go so far, while others farther. I know that in college you'll

that's life

[velvetglitz]

i absolutely agree with you. Why can't I be pretty or why can't people see that i can be fun to hang out with? All the pretty girls hang out with the guys you want. Why can't I talk to him? It's because all the pretty popular girl surround him and you can't even get a word in. It happens. Life is that and it sucks.