detransitioning!

[renee_tdot_ts]

Tomorrow I am going out and getting a boy haircut and am going to go off hormones. I just have to find a way to tell the people I have commited performances to, that I am not going to be there. I also will not be answering my phone for a while so please don't try to reach me. I just want everyone to know that I love them and am safe. I m jut in a

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[condatisftm]

my dear friend

Hey,

[tyresias]

For what it's worth, I'd like to say the following. I want to preface it by saying that I will at the end of the day respect your wishes and do my very best to call you by whichever name/pronouns you choose/prefer

[etherealgrace]

I'm not sure what to say. I just remember feeling rather the same way, minus the trans stuff, not horrendously long ago. Not that I want to diminish the depth of your feelings or anything. It's just that it seems familiar, somehow.

I can 100% relate to the not feeling needed thing. Seems these days I'm Miss Social Butterfly and have oodles of friends, but yet, I still feel like no one needs me, as you have put it. And I apologize infinitely if it seems like I'm angry. I'm really not. It's not the detransitioning that gets to me. It's the feelings associated with it.

Ideally, you'd wait before considering this, much as you waited before considering transitioning in the first place. Granted, you may have contemplated this for a long time; I don't know. It just seems so sudden that I wonder if you've given it enough thought. Nonetheless, I respect any decision you make about this. I'm your friend, remember?

Lots of love, hon...

[gretchenthespy]

Girl, I'm checking in to make sure you haven't done anything stressful.....like cut your hair.

I'm not at goodhandys anymore so please keep in touch, we need to go for dinner soon....