HELP ME!!!

[renee_tdot_ts]

I am really looking for your advice and experiences here people for I am at a loss! Throughout my life I have always been a very outgoing and social person steeped with compassion and always willing to lend and ear to a friend in need. As a result I have always enjoyed the wonderful privilege of being surrounded by many close friends that have

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[brianspeak]

I experienced this with my friends from highschool...Granted they live in windsor and it's been a slow process with them. The guys simply don't get it....they now see me as competition and are turned off by the fact that this "prom queen" girl they used to think was so hot is now just a guy like them....My personality has not changed, but for them it's not right to find me attractive anymore...which they don't. They point out my facial hair and make me feel like a freak. It disapoints me because I feel some of the group is no worth leaving. I am at a loss with what to do (very much like yourself). I don't have advice....just empathy.

Take care,
Brian

[etherealgrace]

It's hard... I'm currently at my parents' house, and my brother still won't speak to me. He has issues with me, even if he won't be man enough to come out and say them. In the end, I still can't see myself as anything but who I truly am, and it would be death to me to try otherwise. Maybe it's the same for you, and maybe it's not. I don't really know. I suppose all I can offer would be hugs... I hope that's okay...

oh honey.

[whatcolourtoday]

Renee

[the_mac_danee]

I struggle near daily about some of the issues you bring up with friends. While I am only out to a few, I worry, how many are true friends? How many will be there when I begin to change? I did somehow come across an old childhood friend and let him know. He was like...wow, ok...different but I can't say much cause I have changed a lot as well