a mirror image?

[renitysjourney]

"...a man does not possess a woman just because he fucks her, because he satisfies her. What counts is what happens before and after

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same sex couples?

[sirkeithd]

Then let us ask if the above changes if applied to lovers of the same sex ... for example

Re: same sex couples?

[renitysjourney]

It seems to me that in many ways, any arguments based on physicality run dangerously parallel to harmful stereotypes. Though, as I said in another comment, my filters do not account for the stereotypes...it is in each of us to derive our personal mean.

Yes Keith, another battle that is damned similar to semantic issues.

In any case, I've been focusing on the fucking part of the statements as opposed to the "before and after" perspective. Does this imply the moments immediately prior and after? Perhaps not so much...a smoker of any gender will wish to light up...

When I slow to truly consider the individuals out there (aka different actors)...all of the genders and orientations, kinky and otherwise, I remember that I am not omniscient enough to define a norm.

[yerguyses]

Those statements are the same

[renitysjourney]

My statements are not based upon a fight against misogyny or upon any disparity toward the male gender

[yerguyses]

Hmm. Are you saying sex is a violent act but there is no victim or attacker? I guess I don’t comprehend your meaning. The word violence rubs me the wrong way. But I still think that generalizing as sex being a violent act doesn’t make sense to me. It CAN be violent but not inherently. Oh well I guess we disagree on that. Thanks for the mentally stimulating post!

[yerguyses]

P.S. That was not a personal attack, just a friendly debate.