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Feb 06, 2006 14:45

ok.... to every one out there.... please answer this ( Read more... )

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my opinion summer_iris February 6 2006, 21:00:37 UTC

I think you have EVERY reason to be pissed. You are doing your best while making sure you and your baby are ok. He took a 1 day job b/c it was the easy way out and it is lazy. He needs to be thinking of that baby and you before himself. That's all.

note zerovirus34 February 6 2006, 21:31:27 UTC

I don't agree with what zac is doing right now. I work 40+hours a week (mandatory overtime is in effect right now due to workload), and I attend school full time (17 credits). I still get my homework done, bills are paid, and I still get time with my family. Now this does leave me pretty ragged and short on sleep, but I am still doing it. I think zac needs to step up to the plate, and make up for the fact that because you are pregnant and not physically able to work a full shift, he needs to pick up that slack. It is the man's job anyway to provide, the woman in a relationship, weather married or not, can most of the time choose to work if she wants. If it is financially feesable, she shouldn't have to. Zac should have taken the other job, or gone out to apply for a full time job. If he needs to work out to join the military, he can run in the morning, and then work out in the evening after he gets off a full day of work. getting ready for the military should come second to earning an income in this situation, not the other way around

cmage_88 February 6 2006, 22:01:16 UTC

You have every reason to be pissed. You shouldn't have to work a bunch; it can't be healthy for you or the baby. He needs to realize that you can't be selfish in the real world. Heck, you're being selfless all over the place. I can only hope that the army will provide you with what you need....

*hugs*

lyssa_bandel February 6 2006, 22:40:56 UTC

Hm, livejournal deleted my original post ( ... )

WOW! summer_iris February 6 2006, 22:53:57 UTC

Hey,
I don't know you, but I am a friend of Laura's, and all I have to say to your response to her post is this....

AMEN!!!!!!!!

That sums up what everyone is thinking about this situation. I have never met Zac, but I assume he is a good guy, considering Laura is marrying him!! But he is being selfish and lazy!