Comments | reynard_muldrak: Problems with sharehouse living, problems with the 'blame game'

reynard_muldrak

Problems with sharehouse living, problems with the 'blame game'

Feb 07, 2009 23:23

What part of "YES I SCREWED UP, I kept shit down stairs, I made mistakes" doesn't count for admitting what I've done wrong?

Please tell me where in this, I'm not admitting my mistakes?
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maiden945 February 7 2009, 14:05:44 UTC

I personally think Alex should leave you alone, you have just broken up with someone out of a 7 yr relationship and Alex is not understanding at all of that. Good to know im not the only one having shit put on me for the stupidist of reasons. I'm considering not going to events anymore, or simply not talking at all. Coz everytime I type something/say something I get shit on.

maiden945 February 7 2009, 23:37:34 UTC

Donna: These have been issues since BEFORE the breakup. BEFORE. They arent new. The timing isnt great, no, but you have to bring these issues up sometime. Furthermore, we all get crap everyday, in a great many forms. You arent the only one.

Christina: Accepting responsibility is not the same thing as blaming others. If you accept responsibility, then thats the end of it. Contesting how severe your mistake is compared to the mistakes of those you have wronged WILL NOT help. It doesnt make your mistake seem any less severe. It makes you seem dismissive and ignorant.

reynard_muldrak February 8 2009, 07:47:35 UTC

Dear anon, I know how bad my mistakes are, two of them def were shockers. THat I can fully accept. It's just I had alex tell me " You are fully in the wrong, there is no blame on our side" (at all). THats the thing I'm getting at. Yes I made mistakes and all I can do is say sorry, hear their side and try harder. I don't have to stand someone saying my mistakes were bad, but any we had aren't, all the while admitting that they made mistakes.

Also, anon if you are alex or hanna, please type your name, I don't mind you reading esp as I published it in a PUBLIC forum, but please do me the respect of telling me who you are.

BTW anon, I have had bad shit happening to me for the last 3 years and have been suffering from clinical depression, not all of this has happened 'recently'.

reynard_muldrak February 8 2009, 07:51:14 UTC

Please of please don't 'not go' to any events, maiden. I miss talking to you, esp as I have very few female friends that I can hold a reasonable conversation with.

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