I have a question.

[rita_meter_maid]

If I decide not to go for someone/something and justify this decision with the fact that I would only be setting myself up for disappointment

Comments

[bigufe]

The real letdown is never knowing if taking the chance would have been worth it.

[captain_elwood]

hold nothing back. life is about experiences, not experiences you didn't have. just have fun.
i'm hungry all the time.
i also love wal-mart oatmeal cookies.

[fidelity_]

I was trying to think of how to respond to this earlier and then I saw Jon's comment - and that's pretty much what I was going to say in a nut shell.:)

[captain_elwood]

i just read this out of a book i've been reading and i think it applies to this situation...

you cannot protect yourself from sadness without protecting yourself from happiness.

just thought i would share.

[schmulevitz]

we should do this thing this weekend where you do what you are thinking about doing/not doing/being weird and I will do the same and then we can call eachother for moral support. Yes?

Ele says that deferred means you need to send in another recommendation letter. That's what she says. I would call the school and see what they want from you and then if they say nothing, get another recommendation letter.

And how.