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[robdeicide]

so every once in a blue moon, i mean like once every never, i meet someone that shares similar interests with me, and it seems like they just dont match personalities with me. i met someone that was cool, or at least i thought they were, on the internet of course, and it just seems like theyre always super neurotic and ohhhhhh i dont know what im

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[jellyfish78]

Um, just stop putting people into catagories so much. It is truly great to find someone that shares the same interests as you. And I know that the thought of finding a chunky, blond girl with a lip ring who likes death metal and gorey movies would make you cream your pants, but when it comes down to it, is some Anal Cunt song gonna make or break the relationship? I believe that common interests have a major part in initial attraction, but after a while...a music preference isn't gonna hold a relationship together. Just mellow out. People like what they like, and it doesn't make them an asshole just because they went and saw some Jerry Bruckheimer flick and *gasp*...LIKED it. If you like some chick who likes Spear Britney, well, if she likes you back, who the fuck cares? If she rocks, grin and bear it. Liking something mainstream isn't exactly the same as decapitating the family dog.

[robdeicide]

its just that having common interests always=bad. when i do meet someone who has similar interests, they are always either not interested in a guy like me or they are just super neurotic, or 19, or any combination of those. the girl that i was talking about started talking to me first, just like you did, and i was like wow, it wasnt just that she liked "anal cunt" she liked the same movies, read the same books, etc... but yet ive gotten dumped by people for not having enough in common with them. i guess they were just stupid. you also have to realize that ive constantly been told my whole life that girls dont like me based on how i look and how i dress. i wear jeans and metal t shirts, i dress this way because im comfortable dressing this way, i dont know how to dress any other way. and like i said, im told by my parents, by people ive worked with and such that i should just basically dress differently so that i can hook up with random girl that i'll have nothing at all to talk about with. because apparently thats what

[jellyfish78]

Who said it's bad to be picky? You may feel all lonely and stuff, but at least you're not taking "what you can get". A lot of people do that. I just think that sometimes, at least by the way you write, that you make snap judgments on people, so what if someone likes something you think is kinda dumb, you said yourself that people judge you on your metal shirts, etc...so, don't do it back. A person can still be a good person, regardless of their musical preference. Fantasies about the perfect person are great, but sometimes reality can still be loveable too.
And, what about Colorado?

[robdeicide]

yes i have fantasies about my perfect woman, shes blonde and she has a lip ring and likes anal cunt and the first things out of her mouth are not that shes going to cut herself. when i write about how stupid people are for liking certain things that i dont like its mostly in a humorous way, but a lot of it has to do with being from richmond where everyone blatantly classifies themselves to fit in as either spikey punk, crusty, metalcore, tough guy hardcore, emo, indie rock, drunkcore, straight edge, vegan, bisexual, christian hardcore, goth..... you get the picture. me personally, i cant really be classified, i am into lots of underground metal, but i dont traditionally hang out with metalheads that go to shows, some of my friends that would call themselves hardcore like some of the bands that i like, while my best friend lanny (decrepitmasses) is a crusty punk/goth and he listens to more of the shit that i like than anyone else in that town. my other best friend, andrew (tsks666) hes more into emo and indie rock and music that

[robdeicide]

also i should mention about the girl that i was talking to last night, here is some background. i originally found her through a personal ad (i know big mistake, especially gothic personals)she was kind of cute and she just had amazing taste in metal and movies and books and such things, and so i contacted her and she just didnt want to talk. this was like 6 months ago. i never tried to talk to her again. then last night out of nowhere, i guess she was lonely, she starts IM'ing me. with nothing to fucking say. i was like goddamit, say something. and then when i finally was able to invoke all of my powers of conversation, she kept saying dumb shit or just silence to try and kill it. and then she said "YAWN" so i said "buh bye" it was just very frustrating, i mean i would like to meet a girl with similar interests but they all just are either like her, or their not interested in me as more than a friend. and i was drunk and stoned last night and couldnt really explain the situation well in a post. i know most of my posts

[scotchtapedork]

i like boys who wear jeans and metal tshirts..it's sexy..do you have a shitty car? that makes it even better :)
i just thought i'd be the one to break off into something different with these comments

[robdeicide]

lol....well i have a car that has problems, and its not registered because i cant find the title but some might say that its shitty. i think its awesome though. i have a '91 pontiac trans am GTA. its really fast, but sometimes it loses power if you hit the gas pedal too hard, i hate it when that happens. and i m glad someone thinks that jeans and t shirts is sexy. no one around here does, unless those jeans are jincos and 25 sizes too big.

[scotchtapedork]

oh yum

shitty cars are great though..i drive a 1982 chevy malibu..currently no drivers side headlight, windshield wipers don't work, passenger side door doesn't open..the back windows don't go down..and i have a leak around the front and back windows

do your shirts have holes? holes are sexy *and now after i said that, i realize how retarded that was*

[robdeicide]

i have many shirts with holes as i keep wearing a lot of the same shirts until they rot =D

[satanicharisma]

Oi...I think I might know a little of how you feel, but you'll snap out of it.
Oh yeah..I am just a random wanker...I came across your journal because I see that you are also interested in amebix. I think I'll add you...if that be allright.