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[rogueispunkrock]

i already hate my job, isn't that enough for you. i make shit at it. but i cant' quit because that would totally screw over my mom. i can't get a job anywhere else, because who the hell would hire a girl to do any kind of labor work. idon't have any usable skills that would help me anywhere. unless of course your dad owns an entire construction

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hang in there-

[methemom]

where there is a will there is a way. cliche' I know, but by finding the right advisors, you can probably find a way to finance education, or find a work-in-exchange-for-education or apprenticeship program somewhere. Your mom will adapt and adjust if she sees you are doing what you have to for your future, and you can give a couple of weeks notice when the time comes for that move. A good thing to start would be to go to the enrollment advisors of the schools/places you think you would like to go to/or work for, and talk to them about scholarships, loans, programs, apprenticeships,etc. that would apply to your interests, etc.... It doesn't cost anything to talk to them and get ideas, and most of them have knowlege and connections and are glad to help. Even if you decide not to enroll there, they might be able to put you in contact with others who can get you where you want to go. I know a guy who wanted to learn how to make jewelry so he went to the best shop in town and told them he would like to work for them and they loved the

Re: hang in there-

[rogueispunkrock]

thank you so much. you just did. i just need to go somewhere, but i don't really have anywhere to go.

i tried to move in with my grandparents but my grandpa said he didn't want me to live there. he was goign to let the renters from above my moms shop move in(they're being evicted now for not paying her..), but he won't let me. thats like a giant kick in the face

Re: hang in there-

[methemom]

well that stinks, and stings, too. (Hugs you). My mom told me I had to move out when I turned 18... I managed to figure out what to do to, and haven't looked back. You can figure out a way to make freedom happen.... there are probably hundreds of ways to get there.... don't give up hope! <3