Apparently I have misconceptions....

[romany_drabarni]

Hello all....

Though I do not know why I address this to "all" when only a very few deign to respond to any of it. I am beginning to wonder if I have either wasted my time, or if I signed up for live journal with gross misconceptions of what it was to be used for. HERBIE YOU HAD BETTER READ THIS!!!!I signed up for live journal with the idea

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[jari_kafghan]

*pouts* I didn't want him to die either... But.. But... (and its Kham :) )

And you have my sincerest and deepest appologies. As i told Drew when he talked to me about this, oft times I read and don't know what to say. And telling someone that I don't know what to say always gets me to feel hamstrung. It was also something i didn't realize i was doing. But be sure now that it has been mentioned that it shouldn't happen again.

[romany_drabarni]

Your appologies are accepted. If it had been just one person, I owuldnt have gotten so testy...so, I'm not mad. Dont worry about feeling hamstrung, it takes courage to admit you dont have anything clever to say. It is much like listening to a friend verbally tell you something....you may not have anything clever to say or not have any solutions for them but you make those verbal noises to at least let them know they have been heard....that you are listening. I will never hold it against anyone because they have nothing "clever" to say...or do not know what to say. There have been many times when I havent known what to say. you can always tell because I often just send "hugs" as a lack of anything else....

As for Khamm....I am only going by what the GM tells me....*grins* You will just need to make another char that will feed Raven as well.

[maergrethe]

(Just a note, I commentedto one of your earlier posts before I read this one, and I think it covers the majority of your post well enough. I'm not going to cover it again, but I wanted you to know that I'm listening and I'm sorry.)

As far as more trivial topics go--I didn't want him to die either, but he was stupid. He started it. Really, he did. And I think I know what you mean about Raven's friends all dying on her--except Raven, everyone Lani's travelled with is either dead, undead, or missing. I figure Lani is going to say she must be accursed and run away so she doesn't hurt anyone else. It makes a twisted sense in a Windling way.

[jari_kafghan]

It wasn't his fault. It was all the dice. And then the fact that you couldn't wait around for me to get back. Then the stupid raccoon. Then there was a snowball fight. Then the elf just had to sound exactly like a certain human Kham knew....

[romany_drabarni]

I got you other message. *hugs*

Yes, perhaps Raven and Lani should just leave together, they both seem to be bad luck.

[jungle_boy]

I can't remember if I have commented before but I think not. For the most part I do a lot of reading and very little commenting with all of my friends. The only real exception to this is Margie and we go back a little farther than any of the others do. I will try to be more friendly in the future, in my defense though you are a somewhat intimidating figure and I am normally a rather timid fellow. Anyway, I have to go now.

Later,
Dan

PS sorry about Kham but it was his own stupid fault.

[romany_drabarni]

you know, you are not the first that has told me i am intimidating....I do not try to be....honestly I do not. Shame as I find you amusing and have had fun role playing with you over the course of time. You have a knack for making people laugh and feel comfortable...I would never label you "timid" simply laid back.

And as I said, you dont have to comment all the time and to everything. I just felt like I was talking at nobody.....only ones who answered most of the time was Margie and Drew. Drew understandable so...though he usually gets the full version of anything going on over the phone. Margie has always surprised me because we got off on the wrong foot but I am pleased to say we seem to be getting past that.

*grins* well.....yes....what kham did wasnt exactly bright esp when Drew says he hinted it wasnt a good idea. Though, you are the one that had your character ask "what is so bad about being undead..."

[maergrethe]

I kind of surprised me too by commenting so much, but there are ways I can use the written word that I've not mastered in verbal format. So writing back and forth on here is less tense. I think at first I was . . .well, worried isn't the word for it, but I was hoping you'd like me because of you and Drew, and I wasn't sure and it made things a little tense for me. . .

And then I stopped worrying about whether or not you liked me. I care, but I also know that unless you and I hated each other things would be sufficient and Drew could manage. And when I stopped trying so hard, it started to work. . . Imagine that.

[sylvanus]

God, keep your child! and at the risk of being platitudinous: Pax tecum. "Peace (and my prayers) be with you."

[romany_drabarni]

thank you, may God keep you well....

considering I do not know you, I can hardly accuse you of using platitudes. *smiles* that would be rather unfair....and I do try to be fair.