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[rosenewtricks]

My parents are pissing me off. At dinner we basically got into a discussion about me updating my look but I like my look just fine. My mom was telling me how immature it is to dye your hair weird colors just to get attention and she talked about how much she likes my natural color. My dad said he liked my natural color too. Whatever

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[alexthestoner]

My advice is to stop trying to be different. God made you just right, leave it alone. You don't have the right to do what you want. God only gave you the ability to do what you wanted to do. In your ultimate desire to be noticed and different you have lost sight of your goals, you have lost sight of the path God laid for you. Stop trying to change what God made you to be, and start looking outside yourself for answers. All I see in you is a sea of self pity. You have a lot going for you. When you stop trying to be accepted(i.e. the use of curse words, and sexual conotations), and be who you truely are, you a very enjoyable, humorous, and outgoing person. Lay down the shield you place around yourself. I know it is there because I am certain I am the one who made you put it up in the first place. You should not take our failure as a sign that you are "broken" or need some drastic change to make yourself more desirable. You were desirable before the change into an Alex I don't recognize any more. I know that I had the problems in high

[ilikepi825]

Amen. Words of wisdom to be heeded, indeed.

Pay attention, this man knows what he's talking about.

[rosenewtricks]

Wow. Thanks, Alex.

That really touched me deeply. I'm almost crying because that was the best way you've ever shown me you cared.

(I've actually been cussing and making dirty jokes since middle school, but I guess I'm a little too old for that. It's taken me a while to realize that, but better late than never.)

PS I've two dreams two nights in a row with you in them. Weird.

[striped_beanie]

Poor Alex. I know how you feel, people are always telling me the same things. 'Why would you want to dye your hair? You natural color is so pretty!' I figure I should be experimental while I can. We're still young, you know, and will be for a while.

And the nosebleed in Biology? That's kind of creepy, because I used to wish that ALL the time.

And Alex's comment was touching, but I don't quite see how all of it tied into your post. Maybe I'm just dumb or something. That's probably the case. We'll go get piercings together, hmm? I want my lip pierced, like the scene whore I am.

Brace yourself because you probably won't like this!

[jujugou17]

Ok hon, I've been wanting to say this since you posted this one. Maybe your parents aren't so wrong? I mean, sure, the black hair looks good and all, but maybe you should try something different

Re: Brace yourself because you probably won't like this!

[rosenewtricks]

Why didn't you tell me all of this sooner? I wouldn't get offended if it was worded politely like this. You do know how to be tactful.

Here's something for everyone...I like who I am and I don't really want to change and hate myself. I have enough problems with self-hatred anyway.

Having fun sounds good. Thanks for the disclaimer in the beginning.