i wouldn't feel too bad about it. none of the people i heard saying it said it at the same time, they were different situations, so they probably just didn't want to hurt your feelings, or didn't realize that more than one person didn't appreciate it (well i dont think anyone appreciates prison hugs, not exactly a great word choice, but you get the idea).
Glad to hear that information. See, I just hate it when I piss people off without meaning to. That's why I left that post.
My point is, I don't want to piss anyone off and if I hurt your feelings/pissed you off, I like to know so that I can apologize to you and so that I can learn from my error. But if it's no big deal then I won't make it one.
I agree with Brittany. I don't want my dear friend Alex to change any more on the inside. I miss the non-depressed, light-hearted Alex whom I knew a few years ago. Let's face it -- you need to get laid (Jk) You know what I mean. As much as it's a good idea "not to care about what other people think," other people often influence how you see or feel about yourself. It has always seemed that you have a phobia of becoming obsessed with what other people think of you. I'm not telling you to become obsessed. Just try to create some sort of balance that allows you to care about the positive and not about the negative of how people see you. If you are going to change, change in a positive way -- not in a way that you might think would make you more different from everyone else. It's easier to enjoy life when you are happy and inappropriate at appropriate times, and I hope I'm not blowing smoke out your ass right now.
Well, to answer your comment, read what I wrote to Brittany. As for the depression, things are hopefully going to get better and I will hopefully soon talk to my parents about my depression. They will know some solutions and they can help me get out of the dark cloud.
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none of the people i heard saying it said it at the same time, they were different situations, so they probably just didn't want to hurt your feelings, or didn't realize that more than one person didn't appreciate it (well i dont think anyone appreciates prison hugs, not exactly a great word choice, but you get the idea).
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My point is, I don't want to piss anyone off and if I hurt your feelings/pissed you off, I like to know so that I can apologize to you and so that I can learn from my error. But if it's no big deal then I won't make it one.
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I also wish I weren't depressed.
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