i have totally the same thing. in fact, this is the first time like, ever, where i've had friends for more than a couple of months. it'll be okay. trust me lady, you're stuck with me. hee!
and if you can't tell your parents, then im of the mind that it was the right thing to do to end it. granted, that doesn't make it the wrong thing to do to have it in the first place, yknow? you learned from it, you grew, and that's why it happened.
I definitely did grow from having known him, that's for sure. But I just wish I knew how he was doing without having to call him, you know? I hope he's all right, the poor thing.
Usually the person who initiates the breakup does habour some feelings of guilt. I think its normal enough, but if you felt it was right, I wont disagree on any paricular point.
Also, this may come as somewhat of a shock to you...but you're cool. Im sure there will be many more homeslices in the future for you to undress in dark alleyways. =D
Hmm, I wouldn't worry about me in terms of friend-losage... yeah it's a word. XD I dunno, I don't see many people consistently on campus to begin with, so as long as you like seeing me, I like seeing you. Uhm, that sounds wrong somehow, shoot. Let's be friends! YAY!
Yeah; relationships, no matter how short, really do feel like soap-operas. It's kinda funny... or unfunny?... coincidence that we're on opposite sides of a relationship. One being the dumper while the other is the dumpee... uhm, though I tried not to be the dumpee. XD There's always "what if"'s and emotional turmoil and questioning yourself. I dunno, from the way you wrote it, it seems like you could possibly try again (maybe slower?) if you wanted to. But on the other hand, you shouldn't lead anyone on, and I approve of you for not doing that to him. ^_^
Let's all play with fire Friday night, regardless. Not emotional or situational fire, I mean. The real shit, the original "hot shit". There'll be marshmallows. XD
As for emotional turmoil? It sucks, it sucks, it sucks so bad. Thanks for the vote of confidence for me not having led him on. :D Still though, I'll always have a place for him in my heart. (I know, I know, cheesy! I can't believe I just typed it either). Maybe I'll try again in the future if he'll have me, I don't know.
Ok so the whole is this feeling normal? I don't know.
Here's what I do know. Ppl do sometimes feel regret. If a couple weeks in, you're still thinking you shouldn't have broken it off instead of getting over it, maybe you shouldn't have. But I somehow feel you will rise from this and move on. I'm not saying this because I disapproved of the situation. I actually didn't have all that many problems with him, as much as I didn't know the guy.
I miss you too. How do you feel about english grammar? I have an exam tomorrow and have not finished studying. Eek. Also have not started for english grammar. Double eek.
Soap Operas come and go, but unconditional love can be forever. Meaning, this is what I offer to you..... the unconditional love part. Not the soap opera thing...
Angel, you calm my spirit when you say nice things about me moving on and such. Shpanks.
English grammar: sooo not ready. But if it's phonetics, I've got it down pat. If you want some help or anything, hollaback, bap bap. Good luck on your exam tomorrow. :)
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in fact, this is the first time like, ever, where i've had friends for more than a couple of months.
it'll be okay.
trust me lady, you're stuck with me. hee!
and if you can't tell your parents, then im of the mind that it was the right thing to do to end it.
granted, that doesn't make it the wrong thing to do to have it in the first place, yknow?
you learned from it, you grew, and that's why it happened.
my 2cents for ya.
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I definitely did grow from having known him, that's for sure. But I just wish I knew how he was doing without having to call him, you know? I hope he's all right, the poor thing.
Your 2cents well-received.
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Also, this may come as somewhat of a shock to you...but you're cool. Im sure there will be many more homeslices in the future for you to undress in dark alleyways. =D
Take care Aleya,
Uzair.
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That made me feel so much better - I will now call my next dark alleyway of choice my "love pad". I'll get so much action.
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and whos ricardo the guy you introduced me too?
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My life is a Bollywood movie...
...with white people...and black people....and the Asians...
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Yeah; relationships, no matter how short, really do feel like soap-operas. It's kinda funny... or unfunny?... coincidence that we're on opposite sides of a relationship. One being the dumper while the other is the dumpee... uhm, though I tried not to be the dumpee. XD There's always "what if"'s and emotional turmoil and questioning yourself. I dunno, from the way you wrote it, it seems like you could possibly try again (maybe slower?) if you wanted to. But on the other hand, you shouldn't lead anyone on, and I approve of you for not doing that to him. ^_^
Let's all play with fire Friday night, regardless. Not emotional or situational fire, I mean. The real shit, the original "hot shit". There'll be marshmallows. XD
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As for emotional turmoil? It sucks, it sucks, it sucks so bad. Thanks for the vote of confidence for me not having led him on. :D Still though, I'll always have a place for him in my heart. (I know, I know, cheesy! I can't believe I just typed it either). Maybe I'll try again in the future if he'll have me, I don't know.
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Here's what I do know. Ppl do sometimes feel regret. If a couple weeks in, you're still thinking you shouldn't have broken it off instead of getting over it, maybe you shouldn't have. But I somehow feel you will rise from this and move on. I'm not saying this because I disapproved of the situation. I actually didn't have all that many problems with him, as much as I didn't know the guy.
I miss you too. How do you feel about english grammar? I have an exam tomorrow and have not finished studying. Eek. Also have not started for english grammar. Double eek.
Soap Operas come and go, but unconditional love can be forever. Meaning, this is what I offer to you..... the unconditional love part. Not the soap opera thing...
<3<3
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English grammar: sooo not ready. But if it's phonetics, I've got it down pat. If you want some help or anything, hollaback, bap bap. Good luck on your exam tomorrow. :)
I unconditionally love you too.
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hint: Say yes.
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After we go creping, we're coming back to Glendon for bonfiring, I assume, correct?
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